Pain in my, well .......boys?

Hey. Personally I think blue balls is an urban myth started because someone in chastity was trying to get an orgasm. I haven't had and orgasm or milking in over 6 months and feel fine. When their is a big enough build up, your body will naturally extinguish it, like it's supposed to.
I am locked 24/7 also.

 

i agree, that i believe the full balls bit to be an urban myth. My sub hasnt had an orgasm since 27th december, last year,and he doesnt suffer physically because of this. However, depending on the type of device and the fit of it, what I think can happen, which is what you might be experiencing is as follows ..... when you fit a device, you have a back ring, that sits between your body and your balls. Then you have a bit that encases your penis, which clips on, in one of various ways to the ring. Now, if that ring at the back is too small it can cause discomfort, if its too big it can allow the balls to retract through. Once the cage is attached, there is a cap caused between the back of the cage and the front edge of that ring. If this bit is tight, it can have two effects, it can stop the balls disappearing back through that back ring, but it can also cause them to be squashed. If they are squashed in that tiny width gap they can end up purple. or miscoloured. Its not really a problem, but can be uncomfortable. I think this might be what you are suffering with.

There are various issues that can occur with the fit of any device, its a bit like a lady finding the right size bra, a 34D can be the same size fit as a 36c, you just need to spend a little time and check for fit. Dont forget tht chastity isnt alwys going to feel the same, and this is normal, this is because both the ball sack skin has a mind of its owm, as does the skin of the penis. as you will be well aware. Both of these types of skin are very different to the whole of the rest of the body and quite remarkable the way they react to heat, cold etc. Its all trial and error. Dont give up and do expect some discomfort

 

12 days is hardly a marathon. Stop complaining and don't be so silly.

 

Call it what you will, blue balls or whatnot, but I've noticed that over a period of chastity, I definitely notice my testicles get a lit

 

I agree with some of the others here - after a certain amount of time without an orgasm (with or without a chastity device), I certainly notice some minor enlargement of the testicles and a bit of tenderness that goes along with it. Once an orgasm comes and goes, it subsides. Maybe that whole "full balls" thing is true for some and not others; I don't know. I don't consider it alarming; usually when I have that "full balls" feeling, I get more leakage of seminal fluid/pre-cum, so I figure the body is taking care of it.

As far as other medical research goes, there's no definitive answer I know of in terms of chastity and prostate health. Some say orgasms promote healthy prostates; others say there's no relation, because the body will naturally milk and release excess prostate fluid (see: pre-cum).

If you're overly sensitive, though, it's worth evaluating your comfort and health. Talk to your KH about it, and hell, if you're comfortable enough, ask your physician to be safe. Everyone's body is different, so listen to yours and act accordingly.

 

I am not quite sure I agree with purple balls are not anything to worry about . I think they should be their normal pink.
Of course your body will deal with any build up with excess spunk otherwise some guys on hear would be needing a wheelbarrow to carry their balls around on !!
Your boy bits are quite tough so even quite uncomfortable pain quickly subsidies when they are left alone.
However if you are aching it is probably time to let them out just to check they are ok . There is something called testicle torsion which sometimes is not particularly painful but is very bad if you want to be a daddy.
Its a question of this is only for fun not to the point of risking your health


Xx Wendy
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We have been in a chastity lifestyle for over four years now, cold weather is my only nemesis and balls that like to try and retreat. It causes skin burn which can be quite painful sometimes, my wife just tells me to grin and bare it.
We have found metal cages cause less discomfort than plastic and getting the sizing right is very important to long term wearing.

 

My balls are very very big, I use a two inch ring. It takes a while for us to get them in there, I never had that problem, When they get full, they do ake. After release, Go back to normal. Never changed color. We are all different.

 

If your balls ache in a relaxed state then it sounds to me that something is to tight. Whether its the back ring or the gap is to small. Also if things down there are changing colors to me it means your cutting off circulation and that is not good.

 

Almost all of the fluid that you ejaculate is generated in your prostate, not your testicles, so "swollen balls from not coming" is pretty clearly an urban myth. My Jail Bird, which fits quiet well (and probably any chastity device with a ring behind and in front of your balls) pulls my balls forward a little so they definitely feel bigger/heavier. If this is a real ache, I would agree that this is a fitting problem. I can imagine that too narrow a gap between the base ring and the cage ring might cause circulation issues and swelling. It is also possible that contact between your balls and thighs when you walk or run with your device on is causing a little swelling.

When I first started chastity, I tried to wear a Holy Trainer with a tube too narrow for me, and my penis went numb, so I would recommend taking any fitting issue that affects circulation or causes swelling very seriously.

 

Yeah, I'm more of a 12 YEARS kind of a girl.

As far as aching goes, I get turned on when guys tell me about their discumfort. Aching seems to happen more (IME) when the guy gets turned on from foreplay, teasing, porn, or some other type of enticement. Obviously, since this intrigues and excites me, I try to get a fella 'revved' at least once a day so as to feed my insatiable appetite for squirming and frustration. (I would put a winky face here, but I am absolutely serious.)

I have a feeling that men who produce larger amounts of semen (i.e. have more voluminous or frequent ejaculations/urges) are more inclined towards chastity-related aching due to the pressure created in the ever-full prostate. I must confess to having recently approached a guy who had hooked up with a couple of my girlfriends, both of whom mentioned his copious, "very messy" ejaculations, which were apparently pretty abrupt as well, though he seemed to always be up for a second and even a third round -- a semen factory. Teasing him was a blast (er, not so much for him) because he became very agitated very quickly. My fantasy dungeon would be full of guys like this -- 'Fire hydrants', I call them. (Contents under pressure.)

God, you people must think I am so awful for being a predator of the unsuspecting.

 

If you are relaxed and well lubed in your cage and your testicles are turning blue then you might need to change something maybe the ring size or space between the cage and ring.
Im normally locked in for 13 days and i get an O on day 14 (How depends on my KH)
and the only time i get Blue balls is when in Very turned on (for whatever reason) then i clam down breath easy think of nothing sexy then after a a min or two im fine....if my KH even whispers to me in those moments im back in Blue balls territory.

I dont think just because your denied an O for a period of time that you get the blue balls myth.

You might get a bit of an pelvic ache just after you O, I know i do anyway.

 

Never experienced aching balls from lack of orgasms my experience is the body will regulate itself quite nicely.

 

Oh I have! I was a twice-a-day masturbator for years. I tried stopping before we got married. I might have lasted a week, and my balls started to ache. It was bad enough that I was getting worried. So I jacked off, and the pain went away shortly after. I never tried it again, until now. Now in chastity, and I'm curious to see if it happens again now that I'm 34 years older....

 

Here's what DiscoveryHealth.com has to say about the topic:

"When a man becomes sexually excited, the arteries carrying blood to the genital area enlarge, while the veins carrying blood from the genital area are more constricted than in the non-aroused state.

This uneven blood flow causes an increase in volume of blood trapped in the genitals and contributes to the penis becoming erect and the testicles becoming engorged with blood. During this process of vasocongestion the testicles increase in size 25-50 percent.

If the male reaches orgasm and ejaculates, the arteries and veins return to their normal size, the volume of blood in the genitals is reduced and the penis and testicles return to their usual size rather quickly.

If ejaculation does not occur there may be a lingering sensation of heaviness, aching, or discomfort in the testicles due to the continued vasocongestion. This unpleasant feeling has popularly been called blue balls, perhaps because of the bluish tint that appears when blood engorges the vessels in the testicles."

So, it seems that there is some truth to the matter, both in terms of your nuts swelling up, and also that they become achy and sensitive.

Now, I'm an old fart, and no longer seem to have the problem, but, Sonny, I remember waaay back when, when I was acourtin' my sweetie, she'd send me home without relieving the "pressure" and my nuts would ache sumthin fierce...