its been 10 days. we got a cx6000, it seemed like a good, reliable device. and it is. The first night i barely slept it was so uncomfortable. Now, i can wear it 24/7 with without any discomfort (apart from the obvious restriction)
10 days is a rather impressive start. Do You have a firm keyholder or do you have this level of self-control ? What is your initial goal? And the restriction will soon be a blessing....
Yes blueeyes, I have a firm keyholder. I have a lot of self control though as pleasing her is all that matters to me. She uses her 9in strapon on my daily but denies me release. She has allowed me one orgasm in this time. It was the most intense one I've ever had.
Yes, the restriction s now incredible. A constant reminder of my place. My initial goal is to go a month without release it climax. This may take a while though
It was a couple of very uncomfortable days at the start let me tell you. The ache in my balls was unbearable. Now though. I feel weird when it isn't on.
Are You in for the very common start, that most of us faces: You are the one try to prolong the lock-up time, - not Your key holder ? Who sets the goals right now. You or her? It is my impression that 95% af us subs are the ones who initialy pushes the limits and tries everything to prolong the lock-up time, while our key holders reluctantly and with skepticism slowly adapts to this new lifestyle, and Your enthusiasm in a pursuit for extended denial. So it is my guess that you are the one - pushing the wagon, right? Sooner or later - if we don't push to hard, - we will see our key holders take control and become active gate keepers, with a desire to keep us on our toes by the help of extended tease and denial of release... It normally takes TIME to reach this level of complete surrender, so patience is in order. But when You succeed - Its like coming home - for some ( me included) However - For some - the expression "Be careful what you wish for", - takes them by surprise - and suddenly makes a lot of sense;-)
I Take You are wearing a CB6000 - taken from the looks of your avatar? I started out with that as well, but we - my wife/keyholder and me both found it to monstrous and less esthetic, so we went for a Steelworxx Steelheart, with integrated lock - ( no loose padlock) and anatomic base ring. So much more "stealth" - meaning discrete , smooth, heavy, and unescapable due to the integrated PA-fixing... Tell me about feeling strange when it is off. ;-) That feeling will grow stronger and stronger - the longer your lock up session lasts..
Try to see how to use the Stealheart with A PA-fixing. Here is the link to the video. ( One notice about the ring he uses. It does not have to be that big!!. Since there will be no pulling on the ring, - you can go with a much smaller. ) You can also find photos on my profile page. It is completely unescapable and untouchable If You are not into Steel - The New Holy Trainer is a great piece with similar features - Except PA-fixing.... Well, enough promotion from me this morning. Sorry! Lol...
I don't know if I could do the piercing thing. I don't have any. If she decided I should have one I would but I'm not brining it up hahahaha
Just tell, her You can pull out anytime You like, -without a PA;-) - - or maybe rather not tell her. Tough call! - take your pick - and have a great weekend PS: A PA - It does not hurt!! - A sting for 2 seconds - thats it...
I'm not long term like some if these guys but after 2 week stints in chastity I come out rock hard. Pressed for time now but if you have an queries, just ask. Are you in a device?
No way! I would say, that I hardly ( Lol..) got real had back in those days where I wanked the beast way to often. More than once I had to improve erection with a cock ring when we had sex. Now - being in minimum 2 months stints - and heading for infinity, I am allowed to enter her when she feels like it, but I'm not allowed to cum! Boy I can tell you - that there is no need for any auxiliaries getting it rock hard And on those rare occasions where I am allowed to cum - I cum much harder, - and ejaculate more and spurts much longer. What's not to like about that turn of events? ;-)
My orgasms are more intense and I get harder erections also in addition to more cum. I have come to enjoy being locked up and will put my cage back on without even being told. The most I have gone so far is 7 days and am looking forward to possibly a couple of weeks locked up to see how intense it gets.