What's the ratio? in first 100 days of 2014!

Well I disagree. I think it spoils the surprise and anticipation for him and for me. Also I don't end up being reminded all the time or having to unlock him due to some prior agreement when I might not even be in the mood for unlocking him.

 

I used to have, or should i say WE had
Now it is all down to me, and since i got convinced that I can in fact even enjoy intercourse with him - at least for a while - hi-hi, without release for him of course, I think I am rather comfortable with not planning any releases for him. I am amazed that he can endure it, but he can it seems No drawbacks so far! Should I expect any in the long run?

I would not like our relationship to develop to a point where the feeling of being close had vanished. Being close in life and in bed is very important. And we have never been closer since he offered me to take charge.

And I like what I see, when he is in this clueless state of denial. He is very sweet and treats me so nice. And I can see in his eyes that he just wants more of this, so why should I spoil the pleasure, for both of us - hi.hi?

 

Well I would be prepared to expect anything in between perpetual bliss to a grumpy downhearted man who has gone off the whole idea altogether.
Everyone is different and relationships have different dynamics. You just have to monitor your feelings continually and find a way to balance it by yourselves. I would recommend taking things very slowly and relishing every step of your journey.

 

You know us well, M^S... Why, I get an erection just looking at a Starrett catalogue...

 

Do you boys have little notebooks and pop all the numbers and details in them. I find it all hilarious. I can just imagine you all scribbling away in your notebooks whilst your wives and gfs have long since gone to sleep.

 

I love the image B

 

Not a notebook, but an Excel spreadsheet, with several year of data in it, which I fill in as she watches over my shoulder and teases me about how the next time she's going to allow an orgasm is still weeks off...

Of course, you have to be aware that I'm a bit obsessive about tracking stuff, and use many other spreadsheets that don't involve chastity at all.

 

I'll bet he hasn't. LOL
Rita

 

LOL For some of us Harbor Freight is enough.

 

All i do to keep track of things is mark a one page, 12 month, calendar i found online. i circle the start date of a lock up in green & an unlocking date circled in red. My wife enjoys getting updates for milestones like when a full month goes by, or when days like tomorrow arrive which will be day number 100 for me. It's not a big deal, it's just fun. She enjoys it when i email the calendar or text her the total days because it breaks up the day.

 

1 January to 14 May, no release of my sex

 

Hm, I'm not sure about all my orgasms this year. I started chaste in 2014 and had my first orgasm in the middle of february, and I stopped again in the middle of march. So I only had one month of orgasms this year. I wasnt that active in this month, so maybe 20-30 orgasms?

But I prefer to count from the 15th of march. That was when I met my now girlfriend. And I only had one unchaste month before that in 2014.

So, Since I know my girlfriend I got 0 Orgasms at all!

The funny thing is, she loves to make me count her orgasms! She loves how much I care for her orgasms, and how horny they make me. She had 247 untill now in 11 Weeks.