What's the ratio? in first 100 days of 2014!

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  1. BlueEyes
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    Chastity is delightful - and dead serious!

    However its is liberating to have a little fun with the lifestyle now and then. I have previously launched the "nightboner competition" - for everyone - (primarily subs - Lol!!) to show-off their nighttimes lonely engaged struggle.

    Now I would like to see some real numbers of your release - ratio, - and by release i mean - discharging of semen, - in comparison to you Wife's/Mistress's amount of O's
    - in the first 100 days of 2014: January 1.th - to April 10.th .....


    All these tickers, ruined O,s Milking makes me dizzy!

    Lets have some real evidence of your status. A snapshot of your lifestyle! Not to compete, - cause there is no point in making this a competition. It is supposed to be an evidence of Your Dommes strategy and discipline !

    Well, to participate You first of all need to some a pretty accurate account of Yours and hers in the first 100 days of 2014, - but I would not consider it cheating if You are honest and good at guessing, - but Maybe you hold an account? Some Do - I Think - cause I Do - Lol..!!
    ( I might stop at one point, - but t has been like a proof of concept to me in my first year in chastity)

    I have chosen not to use the Poll, - It is to limited and restricted, so i have made a template in the bottom of this post for you to copy to your own post - and fill out. Simply copy and replace the X's with your numbers.

    Have fun!

    My number and comments goes like this for the first 100 days of 2o14 :

    My Total releases: ( discharging semen) 4
    Out of this total:
    By Your hand - (Oh my Good!)
    0
    By Her hand - not ruined 1
    By Her hand - ruined 0
    Penetration 3
    Milking 0
    Other ways 0 - please explain:

    Her Total O's: - the ones you know of:) 39
    Out of this total:
    You serving her orally 35
    By Her hand or toys 4
    Penetration 0
    Other ways 0 - please explain:

    Your Comments: My comments would be that I have been substantially "upgraded" to maybe not any more release for me in 2014. The "schedule" has been set at indefinitely! . My 4 releases all came rather early inside the first 100 days, -so I have been practicing some serious denial for quite a while all ready. She must think I an Man for it.. Lol...


    THE TEMPLATE FOR YOU TO COPY:.

    My number and comments goes like this for the first 100 days of 2o14 :

    My Total releases: ( discharging semen) x
    Out of this total if you can:
    By Your hand - (Oh my Good!)
    x
    By Her hand - not ruined x
    By Her hand - ruined x
    Penetration x
    Milking x
    Other ways x - please explain:

    Her Total O's: - the ones you know of:) x
    Out of this total if you can:
    You serving her orally x
    By Her hand or toys x
    Penetration x
    Other ways x - please explain:

    Your Comments: My comments would be that .....
     
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    I will have to consult my bookkeeper and security cameras to provide you with 100 days of the information you are asking for. :) Most of the time we cannot even remember correctly who came on what date much less the extremely detailed information you are asking for plus pictures. Sorry but we do not keep score as it does not matter to either of us who does what and when, :)
     
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    Lol.... !!
    I know it is a little far out, - to ask of this- in such detail, - it requires autistic skills, -but I was having fun doing the post! - I know it can seem quite odd to keep track, -and frankly I thing I will stop doing it, - especially after she has put on this very severe denial.. Then there is really no point in counting. It will all be hers....:)

    If there is anything of value in my little survey - it would be to get af picture of how many subs who has others kinds of release, - apart from PIV- sex related, and to know how many releases that was accompanied by pleasure and real O for the sub...
     
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    I can give you generalisations but not actual figures. My sub is regularly edged, normally by hand, sometimes by mouth. usually for an hour at a time, usually twice a week. He can also be edged by penetration, this usually culminates in a ruined climax. He has had 3 now this year. two were inside me, the third was in my hand. Hope this is of use
     
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    @MistressBitch - Thanks for sharing:) Apart from being fun to compare ( not to compete) , -it is also informative for others, - especially newcomers to see how things can be done, when the lifestyle becomes THE LIFESTYLE. Strategies for how to manage and cope with denial and release comes in so many flavors, - and this multi facet understanding is only healthy for all, because it endorse freedom to choose whatever setup that suits Dome and sub:)

    Happy Easter - all the way from Denmark:)
     
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    My ex did consider the idea of having a target number of orgasms for her before my next.
    She decided against it for two reasons.

    One being that she could not decide how she would differentiate seperate orgasms for her.
    Often her orgasms were so close together that they may or may not have been one multiple or extremely long one that was in waves or if they were just a lot very close together and the idea of trying to count them was too ridiculous and potentially far too distracting.

    Fortunately she found an end to her dilemma with the second reason.
    She said that she much preferred that I did not have a clue when my next orgasm would be and setting a target would spoil that.

    So it was back to her having as many orgasms I could give her and me not knowing when my next would be.
    The whole discussion took about 10 minutes.
    It was very nice to know that she had been thinking about TTTWD though.
     
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    2 orgasme for me 1. and 15. marts. For her there has been a lot of orgasmes but we dont Count.
     
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    Our ratio so far this year is 12:1. It's kind low by previous years' standards, but CH has been tinkering with her HRT meds, and while she's having lots of fun, she hasn't felt her usual need to orgasm frequently. I expect that, once she gets the meds dialled in, her orgasm count will shoot up. I hope so, because it's so satisfying to see her come long and hard... and frequently... My orgasms? I have a feeling that this year could be a repeat of 2012 for me - three for the year.
     
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    so far in 2014, my sub has had much edging, 3 failed orgasms, two PIV and one in my hand, dont know whats going to happen tonight .......
     
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    ZERO.

    1 milking anally using G-spot vibrator.


    Her: MANY. Lots of AA & AAA batteries.
     
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    Thank You all - so far - for your contributions:)
    And Gosh! - I'm feeling somewhat Vanilla;-)
    Funny though, - that us poor subs all seems to be kept on a rather intense diet, - yeah some even barely see the plate! -while she is having countless of O's.
    A note about her "countlessness":
    It was never my intention to ask you to keep track of her Multi Orgasms,- just the sessions. That goes as well for us subs. So to sharpen the definition I should have stated that multiple Domme O's and multiple sub releases with 24 hours should only count for one each:).
    But who am I to decide how you should keep track of the ratio? Lol!!!
     
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    83 for the QUEEN

    12 for the sissy
    On track for 36 for the year down from 70 last year
     
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    Wow! Three a month?? She's very generous...
     
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    Four for me and one a week for my wife.
    Last night was my birthday and we got a bit drunk! My wife told me when we were in bed that if I massaged her feet until she fell asleep I could have an orgasm.
    She left the key on my pillow and I began massaging her feet only fir us both to fall asleep!
     
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    to be fair, and speaking as a Mistress, as I am. I think feel, that it might be unwise to discuss how many orgasms a mistress might have. lol, the more the better - the more the orgasms the happier the mistress, bnut i would suggest that it shoudl also maybe be a competition to see how long each of us mistresses can make our subs last without one at all ..... so far, although newish to the game, my sub has gone 1 week short of 4 months ..... any advances ...... lol
     
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    O yes. Mine's gone without for years - I've lost count!
     
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    Well, @MistressBitch - I think @Joroincharge just saved me by the bell, by introducing "countless" O's for Mistresses. That reveals no real numbers, and at the same time it is a powerful message to us subs''';-).
    Regarding the launch of a competition among you Mistresses, please go ahead;-) - However I'm afraid my wife will be a very strong contender lol!! I put my money on her :)
     
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    My Total releases: ( discharging semen) 0 (not since November 2013)
    Her Total O's: - the ones you know of:) 2
    Out of this total if you can:
    You serving her orally 0
    By Her hand or toys 2 (once while i was bound, locked in my leather hood with a gag & blindfold & once while i was at work)
    Penetration 0 (have not been permitted to penetrate her since the fall of 2012)
    Other ways x - please explain:

    My Wife would had had many more than just the 2 she has had, but she has been very sick with pneumonia since the end of January. It was only the last 2 weeks that she has started to feel better, but is still not 100% yet. Ever since she has gotten her Hitachi & we found a strap on that i wear for her that she enjoys the feel of, she remains satisfied without the use of her locked & cumless cock.
     
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    And in my case it's countless both ways - countless how many I've had and countless how long he's gone without!
    :)
    Joro
     
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    You boys and your rules, measurements and numbers.....incredible!
    ;-)
     
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    I agree:)
    having read what BlueEyes got started(!), I might need to restrain him for a while;-) - hi-hi. I never liked this counting fetish myself. I will tell him to stop, and just make him settle for clueless and countless!;-)
     
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    #22 Mascara^Snake, Apr 22, 2014
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    I think "clueless" is definitely important with regard to any kind of release for him.
    My man is released when I'm in the mood. There's no schedule or date. It's almost always a complete surprise for him. I think it's the best way myself.
    As for counting the days of his lock up, although I prefer he didn't mention it ( and he rarely does) he always seems to know exactly long he's been locked.
    Do you ever have any sort of schedule or date planned for BlueEyes releases?
     
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    Usually I know approximate date and it might be a little bit easier this way but it's always her choice at last.
     
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    Easier for who?
     
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    Definietly for me, it's a huge difference to be prepared mentally for 3 months, 6 months or unknown ;)
     
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