Wife and i have been talking about a full year of lockup

Are we talking about a year of being in one's device without release, or are we talking about a year of orgasm denial? My sweet bride could never go more than a few days without unlocking me for some serious teasing. She loves to torture me, and I love that she gets off on taking me to the edge so often and so thoroughly.

If we're talking about orgasm denial, though, it's another story. She has kept me denied as long as nine months in the past and since she has me set up the "Wheel of Misfortune" with a one year spot on the wheel, if and when it comes up, I could easily end up being denied that long.

Could we both handle it? Sometimes she gets antsy and lets me orgasm before the date we had previously set, but it all depends on her whims. After spending nine months orgasm free, I think I could easily last a year. After a few months without an orgasm, I typically shift into the "being teased and kept constantly horny is way better than a fifteen second orgasm" mode, and start to enjoy my situation. Being an old fucker probably makes it easier...

 

I have gone 320 locked and no orgasm and last year 321 locked
( with a few orgasms while in device)
Both times, I was actually
dissappointed, that i did not reach the one rear mark.
Currently at 61 days of orgasm denial( 51 locked in new jailbird). Miss K shows no particular desire for me to reach orgasm and when the subject arises she just says it will be a long time or ...sometimes .. "You're just getting started" ..
Personally I would love to go to the one year and maybe beyond mark.
I totally relate to Harry's comment,
I too, absolutely prefer the
Constant horny, to a few seconds of delicious wonderful orgasm.. Orgasms are fantastic! Always horny.. Well ...keep me locked please.

 

A year is a good way to ..start.. for zero orgasms..in my opinion..

 

I'm 7 months into this lockup without orgasm. My Mistress has not said how long it will be, but the longer I go, the longer I want to go. I hope to get at least a year and then why stop there? Mistress has plenty of lovers for her satisfaction and I'm not allowed to see her naked body as that's reserved for real men only. She joked the other day about keeping me locked for 10 years, but I have no objection to that. Why do I ever need to be out? Lol x

 

Mistress made me go 234 days .... she did take me out to Train me using Tease and Denial many times but always locks me right back up when she's done. Never allowing me to unload her balls. She says this time there is no reason to not go for a year.

 

It was never difficult for me. I always enjoyed chastity on my own before I met her. Once I did meet her and she took control of my orgasms, I was more than happy to obey. Chastity is a priveldge not a right. Their are lots of subs desperate for key holders. I have said to her before, that if she told me I would never have another orgasm again, then I would be fine with that as long as it meant I could keep serving her. I would beg to be locked up again if she took the cage away from me and she knows that. At the end of the day, what is an orgasm? It's shooting a load and that's it. Yes, it feels good but in my experience, it's not as good as knowing I have pleased my Mistress. And shooting cum doesn't change how I feel about her, so why do I need to. x x

 

I've been locked in my Lori's #2 for thirteen months with only one release last October. At the end of the first year She asked me to commit to twelve years of chastity, the first seven of which will be zero orgasms, zero tease and denial, and removal only when absolutely necessary. During year eight through twelve I will still be locked 24/7 but allowed to climax occasionally so long as behavior and obedience are properly maintained, otherwise back in lockup. Chastity is a condition of our mariage, as is my obedience and submission. She is the boss and makes all the rules. Long term chastity has allowed this relationship to flourish. Our marriage is wonderful and our sex life is better than ever... so I'd say go for the year! Be sure you have a comfy and secure device.

 

I think everyone should do a full year at least once to say that they have done it.
It puts everything else in perspective. ;-)

 

A year without is definitely something to try for. I've found that the desire for an orgasm drops off after a few months, though it picks up again with T&D or excessive porn! Still, it's not all about pleasure and other things in life easily take over. I say, go for it!

I'm not sure about being locked up for the whole year though. I'm only locked up occasionally. If anything, this makes it more difficult.

 

A year locked and denied or just denied. Locked and denied I have done, I'm good at keeping everything clean etc so barring complications its doable.

Just denied is a lot better though obviously it allows for cleaning and trimming, but also allows for more intimacy, T&D and intercourse and of course as Mistress Bithch says it definitely helps keep those hormone levels up.

 

Locked up and denied for a year, without the intimacy needed in a close relationship doesn't qualify as chastity. It's celibacy.

 

We do too...

 

A year certainly is a very long time, a great leap of faith so to speak. You have to be realistic in setting your goals, just like embarking on an exercise plan.

 

Can't really argue with that. though I do think mind set has something to do with it.
Surely a true (usually religious) celibate does not want to cum and should not even be harbouring such thoughts
I don't think I'd like celibacy.

 

Me neither...

 

Spent 2013 locked up most of the time, and completely orgasmless a most amazing experience

 

I think a year is doable..
I am fortunate enough that I get to have "sort of orgasms". .
( somewhere between ruined and orgasm ) with the cage on ..
We call my erection attempts as a stubby..
Miss K seems to let me have one every 2 to 4 months..currently at about 75 days
In the past, I did manage to make 320 days in a device with no orgasm ..
And i have a friend who is just under two years..so doable..lol
Best of luck to you .. i certainly have "come" to enjoy the deliciousness of giving giving giving with little or n-o receiving. .
Horny ALL the time ..lol

 

Welcome to the adventure!!!MM

 

This is my second of our 1 year terms. Only unlocked for airport security from the Lori's #5 and into a PA5000, then back into the Lori's. The first 3 months are difficult to handle, after that it gets gradually easier until you reach a space where its where you want to be. I really enjoy the last 6-9 months and sometimes feel I don't want it to end. I have 20 more days to complete the second year. I never know whats in store afterward, I only get told once the Lori's is locked back on.