I've had the same type of feelings. Anxious. Frustrated. Irritable. My partner used to tell me that right around the 3 week mark was the...
As others have said, she's in charge, let her make the decisions. That said, if the surprise is an orgasm and it takes you out of the headspace...
There's already been a ton of great advice on this thread. I did have a few thoughts. First, it's important to remember that the vast majority...
Well I was going to say that you're best bet is to follow @LadyMoon 's advice. She is spot on. However, after reading your last post, I'd be...
I think what you are seeing are the two extremes that a lot of people come into the kink world from. The first approach you mentioned is the...
I very much identify with what you are saying here. I am exactly the same way. The more emotionally distant, the more "slave" like the...
I agree that early in relationships, talking about kinks does require a certain level of communication which I think really does improve said...
So first off, I’m looking for some “out of scene” advice/thoughts. TLDR – Has anyone found that chastity and orgasm denial leads to a...
I'm 37, lost my virginity at 19. With the exception of a "get it over with" sexual experience that involved money, I have only been with one...
So where to begin. I’m 37 now and I’ve been into kink since I was a kid. I was online before the internet, downloading porn when it was still...