Craemos

Hey yall!

I first heard about male chastity in 2018/2019 when I was single. Bought a cage more out of curiosity than eroticism. Played around by self-locking for a while, but didn't get any real fulfillment out of it. Ended up finding chastity porn more appealing than the real thing. Continued with intermittent self-locking until July of 2020 when I met my girlfriend.

A month or two after we started dating, I worked up the nerve to introduce my girlfriend to the kink and asked if she would be interested. She was immediately interested. I locked up minutes later and handed her the keys. She has been my only keyholder (and hopefully will be forever).

We continued with progressively longer duration lock-ups over the next few years until we took the step of getting my PA piercing in March of 2023. By August, I was able to get myself gauged up to a 5mm ring, then purchased a PA lock to use with my cage.

In the meantime, we've experimented with some corporal "funishments" like caning, flogging, restraints, etc. In the process, we discovered that I have big (or maybe "small") thing for SPH. She's interested in trying rope-play and we've done a little research on how to do it safely, but haven't actually committed to any practice yet (though we would both love to). More recently, I've expressed a desire for pegging, but she's still unsure if she wants to participate in it.

Of course, over the last few years, I've done plenty of reading about different people in the lifestyle and have been encouraging my girlfriend to do the same. We've both been sharing articles, blogs, and naughty pics we find interesting online and so have finally made the decision to participate in Locktober for the first time. (I initially lobbied for a continuous 3 month lock-up period, but she was unsure if she could go without the real thing for that long. She decided to only commit to Locktober at this time, but said we would discuss going the full three months when we get closer to November).

It's been a wild ride so far with plenty of experimenting and breaks in between, but I'm hoping we can eventually make this a 24/7 lifestyle. I'm looking forward to seeing how Locktober goes and hope she and I both see the value in going for longer (and stricter) lock-ups over time.

My keyholder (girlfriend) and I have been in a romantic relationship for a little over three years. We've grown closer every day - thanks in large part to having a strong, open line of communication and trust at all times.

When she's not busy tormenting my mind and nether regions and I've finished with my domestic and sexual duties, we like to enjoy the outdoors by traveling, hiking, kayaking, and camping. We also know how to take it easy and spend some quite time indoors with books, music, tv, video games, social gatherings, and of course good food and drink!

We're both fairly social people and would love to get to know you! Feel free to send a private message if you want to chat or get to know either of us a bit better!