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    Last Sunday we had piv, I had been unlocked for a few weeks and was working on building stamina.

    I lasted about 3 mins inside my amazing wife. After I was done she put one hand on my chest and another on my package and said “go lock up”

    I got excited and she hopped on for round two where I lasted about 90 seconds. During the second round I asked her if she preferred me locked, she moans yes, which got me off.

    we finished round two and and she stated again to “lock up now”

    I did and when I handed her the key she looked me in the eye and said:
    You will never jerk off again. You’ll never be unlocked unless I want you inside me and based on today I can wait at least a few months.
    I asked: are you thinking about making this permanent?
    Her: I haven’t decided yet, but I don’t think it’s a bad idea.

    I started getting hard in the cage, she noticed

    Her: aw, is your sad little non boner excited about being kept out of my pussy? It’s hard to feel guilty when I see you’re excited.


    So, I’m looking at never touching myself again and potentially being permanently locked.
     
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    Wow… A few months… It’s been only about 23 days since my last big O and I’m already almost driven insane… Maybthe force be with you bro…
     
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    I’ve gone 8 weeks before, but the idea of permanence is terrifying and exciting all at the same time….
     
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    How long into the 8 weeks did it take for you to settle down tho’? I’m looking at another 5 weeks before a possibility of release.
     
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    It took me about 2 weeks to settle in last time. Only took a couple days this time. I am crazy horny and she’s taken to pinching my nipples as teasing…my body has finally stopped trying to get spontaneous erections. Which helps.
     
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    2 weeks… It’s been 3 and I’m still horny as horny can be. It’s about time my bro down there settles down. Nothing’s gonna happen for another 5 weeks.
     
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    Enjoy it now, guys, as when you are older you will no longer have the insatiable lust overwhelming you. Your libido will slow like mine did after about age 60.
     
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    I’m sorry…
     
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    Nothing to be sorry about. You just have to adjust as life happens. All is good!
     
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    That's the attitude!
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    IB-Chaste Chastity Superman.

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    I think you need to reflect on your training regime. I’m not sure you got results on that one. :oops:
     
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    Bizarrely, my wife is training me the opposite way. She wants me to cum faster so we can have PIV sex and she wants me to finish quickly. It's hard to let myself "perform badly" after so many years of training myself to fuck women for a long time. Like I've read some others say, maybe she'll find security that I'm not fucking other women if she trains me to be a premature ejaculator that can't last in bed.
     
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    IB-Chaste Chastity Superman.

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    The more I browse this place the more I realise this isn’t bizarre at all… in fact my reality is the same. My wife has really taken to causing me premature ejaculation. She loves it.
    An advert came up on FB for ‘hims’ supplements. Claiming to prevent ejaculation, she turned to me and said, “you can’t take them. It would ruin our fun.” Before correcting herself “my fun”.
     
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    I'mn mid-50s and it takes me around 2 months without any releases or any type of orgasm for me to settle in to.

    Until then I drive myself and my GF crazy, which she finds fun and arousing.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    My wife hasn’t let me out to self pleasure since we started in may of 2016. She has no intention of letting me do that anymore.

    Recently I was uncaged for healing some skin issues and I played with it. It wasn’t a secret and I told her, but she told me to lock back up immediately and that if it felt fine enough to play with it can be locked back up. She was right, I had been sort of milking that skin irritation for as long as I could.

    That was the first time I had touched it by myself in almost 7years.

    So just an FYI, if you don’t like the reality of not touching yourself again, you might need to rethink this. In my experience, she has not backed down from chastity being part of our life since 4 weeks after we started.
     
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    Yea I was talking about this earlier with someone from this site and I realized we have two problems here:
    1. porn has warped everyone's impression of what sex is or should be
    2. many men are insecure about a woman's past sexual partners and want to "beat them" by lasting longer or being better at sex or whatever
    Neither of these are really valid or healthy. Viagra fueled 10 inch dongs using delay cream to fuck for 40 minutes solid nor being insecure about your partner's sexual past (it's improbable any of her partners were anything special anyway).
    "Natural" sex between a man and woman in the absence of these pressures would most likely be over quick. You, furthermore, need a wealth of time to "get good" at sex. People used to get married young, and by the time they were 23 they had 2 or 3 young children running around their (tiny) house. Hour long sex sessions were not in the cards for these people. Kids went to sleep and you slipped it in and came as fast as you could.

    We live in very unnatural times.
     
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    +1 to that!
     
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    I definitely do NOT want that and some of the stuff I read on this forum scares me tbh. I mean, I liked it as a little game and want to play again some day but I just paid for my wife to get a boob job and plan to fuck her senseless all Spring/Summer long as soon as she's back in action (aside from healing from the surgery she's sick and on her period :().
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Chastity play never ending doesn’t mean you stop having sex, I was referring to her basically not allowing me to touch myself anymore. She has never shied away from that sentiment since we started
     
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    My wife loves a good long fuck, so lasting (at least long enough for her to come once or twice) is pretty important to her, and thus to me. After that, she wants me to come pretty quickly (very very rarely denied at this point), which is pretty easy for me to do.
     
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    Hold on, next month I turn 74 and have been locked and in chastity 6 years mostly at my insistence to start that is. Now Ms T won't let me go uncaged except when she wants me. Like this morning her desires have had peaks and valleys (keeps things interesting) but the last three days have begun with adoring her feet to thighs to her palace to unlocking and PIV, the first morning it was the fight to hold off, avoid the post downer syndrome I have experienced in the past. I like to be in my most attentive mode for her, I can show her that she is the top of my pyramid. experiencing the big Ejaculation starts a downward pattern I would rather avoid, but I could not fight nature and all three mornings ended in the big E. well not so big (no time to rebuild) but ever ever satisfying. So feeling like I'm 25 and still going strong, of course with Ms T ( my wife ) I find this chastity cage working really well for the time being at least. Insatiable lust is what I had last nigh leading to this mornings affair, I had to fight to remove the cage to engage, it was locked on tight, still can't explain the intensity of my arousal. Don't give up the ship, its mostly in your mind anyway hopefully your body will follow. No offense intended. My motto is "better train for old age then not".
     
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    Guess she has other plans. She's got me locked back up after a few days of a lot of sex. Guess she got her fill. :cool::D
     
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