Thought Experiment: Would you wear an inescapable device?

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    Imagine there was an inescapable device, one that has no practical implications.

    Assume you the release conditions were a hard version of your current dynamic: e.g. if your partner controls the keys, your partner really controls the keys, legally and practically... or if it's timed chastity, you're really stuck for the full time.

    Would you do it?
     
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    That’s how it is now. She holds the keys, im in a PA cage. She is the soul decision maker on when I’m allowed out.
     
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    Sure. Why wouldn’t I?
     
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    That's how it works here she holds the keys
     
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    Yes. Not too different than now.
     
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    My device is inescapable with the tether spout and my wife has the keys, so the answer is yes
     
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    This isnthe definitoon of keyholding. In the beginning I tried to escape sometimes and play a bit. Or pulled it out for urinating.

    Now I just squat. Because it is easier.
    I would not need an inescapable device, but would wear one, if she wanted me to.
    For me it could be really permanent, but with emergency options.
     
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    Living it. My titanium device, through a piercing is inescapable- unless I broke the lock somehow - and I have no emergency key. the key are locked in a heavy duty safe that I don’t have the 6 digit code for. My wife says there is an emergency key that will be made available should anything happen to her.
     
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    As long as it's mutually agreed on with my wife, I would do it with her.
     
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    I like my device as secure as possible. At the moment we are using a home made full belt similar to the one described here https://www.chastityforums.com/viewtopic.php?f=15&t=18744&start=10 . Getting out would be a serious challenge and, normally, I don't have any keys although I might get an emergency key sometimes. For me, the only satisfactory alternative would be a device where cheating would definitely be discovered and I knew for sure I would get a serious punishment. My wife is not keen on punishment, so it has to be a secure belt. Yes, of course I would lock myself and hand over the keys even if I knew she was going to make it hard. I know she would let me out if a genuine good reason arose.
     
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    I'm in a piercing locked Evotion Bijou, for which she holds the keys. There is no way out short of destroying the device, and possible risking significant blood loss.
     
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    Do you realize what group you're on? ;-)
     
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    Lol yes, of course. Saving up for a steel version of my current cage for that reason
     
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    I guess if I really wanted to get out of my cage, I could. But, I have never tried to.
    I don't see the point of wearing a cage and getting out of it.
    My Wife (KH) holds the keys, so if I need out, she will know about it.
    If she ever wanted me to wear one with no chance of getting out, I would wear it for her.
    JMHO...
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    There was someone here once that had a custom fit titanium cage that was stuck on.

    The screw was stripped and recessed so it would be impossible to turn without tapping.

    Titanium would be practically impossible to cut, would also heat up too much if attempted, not to mention cutting so close to skin.

    I don’t remember how he ended it, he wasn’t too worried about it and was used to long lock ups.

    A device that absolutely cannot be removed is quite a daunting idea, but realistically I don’t think I would enjoy knowing. I like the hope, even if it rarely occurs.
     
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    Oh this sounds nit too good. Even if my kinkbrain says it would be really nice to have it like this.

    IMHO there isnt a device that cant be opened. These usual locks are just so easy to pick. It is a joke to tell, that somebody holds the key.
    It is always openable. If it os screwed up like in this mentioned case it might be a bit more difficult.
    But openable.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Yes, I believe I mentioned he could tap the screw and remove it that way. Although like I’ve explained in similar posts, doing any self dyi work on a cage is difficult. Working at an awkward angle, close to your body and down a few feet from your eyes, possibly needing one hand to turn or hold the device. Pretty tricky stuff even if it is definitely possible.
     
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    My wife is very good in working with tools.
     
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    I have read stories with a similar theme. They are generally set in a near future and ive always though it all sounds very plausible.
    Personally, i've been doing that for a long time.
    My keyholder had always held both keys, leaving me none.
    I do have the trust though that if i had ever asked for them she would have given them back to me.
     
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    I suppose I could get out of my Jail Bird if I really tried. Although I’ve had the small testicle slip through, I don’t believe the large one could.

    When we talk about trust in this game, not only do we trust our KH, our KH trusts us to stay secured. This IS a two way street. Cheating by escaping the cage would ruin the entire dynamics of of our chaste relationship.

    In my case it would mean a lot of time, money, and effort would be lost, never to return. I suggest anyone considering trying to escape better sit back and think about the consequences.
     
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    Everyone who says "that's how it is now" because "she has the keys" doesn't understand the question. Or your own situation. Most of you can pick the lock yourself with no special tools. Some of you might need special tools and maybe some practice. But you can still do it yourself. Maybe one guy actually needs a locksmith or the help of someone with good power tools.... But probably not.

    Ya'll are deluded
     
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    I guess I would say "YES" because that's my objective with chastity. We've tried to make it as "cheat proof" as reasonably can be done. But this is just to give me enough deterrence to help avoid the immediate temptations. That's worked very well for us.

    I had the "big gulp" moment last month when we decided 1 month was to be the minimum lock-up period for me. This put things more firmly in her control. I no longer have hope for a quick orgasm again. I'm the horniest within 1-7 days after a full orgasm. Knowing it's at least 1 month away changes everything. It forces me to change my focus to her and her pleasure, happiness, and joy alone.

    A cage doesn't totally prevent a man from cheating. I found out early in this journey that a vibrator could give me the opportunity to cheat. I told my wife what I had done and asked her to hide / get rid of the device. She hid it in a kitchen cupboard and found it today while doing some spring cleaning. She asked me, "What is this doing here?" She apparently didn't remember. When she asked what she should do with it, I told her "Get rid of it! Throw it away!" We've bought a Sona vibe that only works on her. We've tried it on me and it does nothing. I've thought of purchasing a vibe that can be used to bring both of us to orgasm but have held off because I could use it to cheat. We'd need to purchase a bigger lock box for her to control.
     
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    Absolutely - as long as the device is practical, I'll take it as escape-proof as possible. Not that I try to escape, but I love the idea of not being able to even if I wanted.
     
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    Are we deluded? This is why I didn't just make this a poll. I wanted to read what people have to say.

    I'm in "permanent chastity", meaning the device stays on until my wife decides something has changed. So far it's been two years. An inescapable device that could only be removed at, say, six months notice with her consent would be psychologically satisfying and might further boost her dominance, but wouldn't make much practical difference.


    Question for @tecolote: what if the legal framework removed any issues with travelling while chaste?
     
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    Obviously this is a "fantasy" question, like if there were some magic involved or something. But let's be serious, actually "never taking off a device" is completely unrealistic. It will have to come off from time to time. And we all know it can be removed given the right motivations.

    For me the concept of permanent chastity means the device (or not) is a constant part of life, whatever the frequency of removal is, and for whatever the reason.

    Like the lady from Titanic, until some guy can say "It's been 84 years...since my device has been removed", any claims about permanent chastity are wishful thinking.
     
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