Games to play to decide his lockup time?

Yes! You can play Scrabble with the constraint of using only sexually-oriented or dirty words. If he wins, he gets X. If you win, he gets Y. Or, you can base a range of time based on the points spread if you win.

Another idea is to have each of you drop 3 little slips of paper into a bowl. On each you write durations that each of you determine (you can set a minimum and a maximum). He then draws one. It isn't exactly chance; the times you come up with are influenced by your decisions of what to write. For example, you could write 3 months on each of yours which gives him a 50% chance on getting that lockup period.

 

Glad you are feeling better. What sort of range are you talking? 3 to 7 days, or in weeks perhaps.

How much time do you want him submissive v subdrop? How long is his refractory period? You could have an orgasm ratio 2:1 ot 10:1 in your favour in order to earn release. Maybe there's a game you nearly always beat him at.

 

Darts.

 

If you play chess give each piece a value then figure something out to go with the outcome. Like take the points that you got of his anthem subtract the points that he took from you and have some outcome planned on his points or yours

 

I would think any game with a scoring system could work (Yahtzee, scrabble, rummy, etc). Each point is worth a certain amount of time, such as an hour or day. If he wins he gets some type of reward but if you win you take the difference of your scores and that how long he’s locked and/or denied.

 

How about one that involves your pleasure as well as his release? Play blackjack by the book. Take one card and put it face down on the side. He is the dealer. He deals you both and you play your dealt hand and have to beat the dealer using normal rules. If you win your score (let's you had 2 queens so 20) is how many orgasms you get before he gets his release (or you can do days). If he wins flip the one side card over and that can be the number of days before he is released, or maybe the number of orgasms you have before his release etc. You can have fun and say if it is an ace it means something (say PIV tonight), a king something else, a queen and you actually win your 20 orgasms. If you are unhappy with the result you can push your luck for a second round but the face down card maxes out at say aces or 5's etc. So much you can do.

 

@Mistress ComDom and I use a strict point system. Chores completed successfully equal one point. Infractions are anywhere from negative 2 to 10 points. Once I reach a certain threshold then it's playtime. It's a very great system for getting stuff done and it motivates the work force ;-)

 

love this!

 

It’s a great system and it keeps me working!

 

Awesome game

 

First of, glad you are feeling better.
You can play blackjack, and make bets on time just as they do money with the option to raise the stakes.

 

There's a phone app called OurHouse that lets you create chores, assign points to them, set weekly point targets and rewards. We've been using it. No point system for us, it's just her whim, but it's a way for her to manage a chore list.

 

Another game could be a guessing game. Examples:

He has to make dinner some number of nights a week. You pick a "secret dish" and if he makes it, he gets unlocked. Of course, you don't tell him what it is until he manages to guess right and make it for you.

Set up a weekly date night. You secretly pick a place you want him to take you. If he plans the right date, he gets unlocked when you get home, otherwise...

 

I think that the game of backgammon would work well for this. It involves enough skill that you own the win or loss, but also enough luck that you are not going to win them all, and you are not going to lose them all.

I would suggest repeatedly play a game (or a best-of-three or best-of-five or something). For each game, keep track of the number of checkers that you take off before the end in games he wins, and the number of checkers that he has left on the board at the end of games you win. The total of such checkers determines how long before the next game (number of days, number of orgasms he has to give your first, or whatever). But regardless, if he wins the game/series, then he gets an orgasm immediately, and then has to wait until the next game for his next chance at another one. If you win, then he doesn't get one, and he still has to wait until the next game for another chance.

I suspect that being horny and desperate would affect his thinking and risk calculation, perhaps causing him to take reckless chances that he otherwise wouldn't take.