Favourite handjob style

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    I get the impression that most of the subs on here who are allowed to experience the occasional full orgasm, do so at the hands of their keyholders. Does anyone have a preferred style?

    I'm allowed to cum maybe once every 2-4 weeks and it normally is a handjob. My keyholder is fantastic at them and it's always a very intimate experience. My preference is for a slightly looser grip, slow and sensual. I also love it when he uses just his forefinger and thumb on my head only, which results in an entirely different type of orgasm, makes me dribble rather than shoot.
     
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    Absolutely LOVE that one...
    But then again, I enjoy not enjoying my orgasms.
     
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    My Wife goes for speed and an uncomfortable position. She's a sadist, so she isn't in to me 'enjoying' a handjob, it's simply a 'release'. It's a gift to me after a period of denial but she won't make it pleasant.

    She uses words to drive me to a quick orgasm, as she has quite the ability to 'talk dirty' in a way that turns me up to 11. As for the physical part, she either uses a soapy hand OR she pours water based lube on my unlocked penis and sits atop me and uses her pussy lips to jack me off. Whenever she is using me, either for penetration or a scene like this, I'm not allowed to thrust or buck.

    When penetrating, I'm absolutely not allowed to cum at all unless given prior permission but in a 'release' scene I'm expected to pop off as soon as possible because if I don't she will stop pretty rapidly and I will have to wait for another time. I'd say she usually gets me off in about 45 seconds.

    If you have to ask, about 85% of my handjobs in this way are ruins...natch.
     
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    Can’t say what my favorite is really but my wife likes playing with me while I have my underwear on really gentle lay until I cum.
     
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    I love her “sit back and relax” handjob. She’ll slowly stroke me while gently sucking on my balls. It’s the exact opposite of the “you’re in trouble” one, where she’ll vigorously stroke me while sucking my balls as hard (and often painfully) as she can. These days I get more of the latter because for some reason it forces me to the edge much quicker despite not being very enjoyable. She’s all about productivity.
     
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    My favorite HJ release is for my Wife to sit “Indian style” or Lotus style, and I’ll spread my legs over hers so I’m up almost to her lap, me on my back, she grips tightly around the base of my cock and uses silicone gel and slowly strokes and teases until I’m bucking my hips, then she’ll decide whether I can have a ruin (teaser :) ) or a full orgasm, and has occasionally continued to torture the super sensitive head during and after I’m cumming depending on how devious she’s feeling.
    We both feel a handjob release is better for keeping me in a submissive state, and being allowed to cum from piv should be more rare and usually for special occasions, but sometimes she’ll allow it just because she feels like it. She allowed my first orgasm of December from piv Sunday night, told me not to hold off, to cum as fast as possible after she had her orgasm. She giggled as it took me all of about 40 seconds, taking her from behind as she laid flat on the bed, round ass lifted just slightly…..it happened so fast and now I want it even worse!
    She of course laughs and says, “Nope! Maybe around Christmas, we’ll see”

    I love her!
     
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    If I'm getting a Handjob, sometimes with a aneros inserted.
    I lie back knees. Up legs spread, hands under my ass or back (so I cannot touch or stop her) , she will sit up between my legs and place her knees inside of mine (so I cannot close my legs or deny her access to my genitals) and her feet at my hips or waist.
    Oil is applied and she will go however she feels. Mostly rough and palming gripping the balls and bulling away from the body and most of the time I get edged two of three times before allowing me to finish.
    Im a complete mess mentally and in body.
    Its quite exhausting and wonderful.
     
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    Fast and furious
     
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    My wife will only do the fast and furious. She doesn’t feel that subs deserve any pleasurable experience.
     
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    Oh no not like the ones you see in most straight porn, like jesus girl what you trying to do, rip it off?
     
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    When I am allowed a release it is all business the goal is to lose fluid nothing more
     
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    I love being rewarded with Mummy's hand. Almost always I am laying on my back naked, and she may be naked or clothed. If she is clothed I will ask her please to expose her breasts.

    It is an arms-length procedure, and she urges me not to waste her time and to get it over with. If she tells me to "squirt for Mummy" it is usually over very quickly.

    Sometimes she does it standing by the side of the bed and leaning over, which is very exciting.

    It is the only way I am allowed to squirt, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

    She knows exactly how to empty her boy.
     
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    2 hand ones are amazing but I can't remember when I last had one. Lady V always knows best
     
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    My wife goes slow and soft, but in the middle she switches her grip to over the top and does something I'm not sure of be it seriously feeling like she's fucking me with a dildo rather than just stroking me, and yes it's amazing.
     
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    I know what you mean! But it's just so counter intuitive, especially for the Mrs to get her head around. Mind you she has got the hang of it now and actually really enjoys it herself now. I think it was a guilt thing at first.
     
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    Before I was married I had a girlfriend who loved to polish the knob (use her palm to rub the top of my penis as if she were polishing it to a shine) which I initially found annoying. The more sensitive underside of my penis was better at the sensations I wanted but she did her polishing relentlessly which caused me to get from annoyed to curious to very stimulated to begging her to let me cum.

    She clearly had a control fetish and enjoyed making me beg her which maybe was were my denial fandom started... who knows?

    My wife's favorite hand job is to use a pair of satin panties to slowly stroke my shaft while she lightly to cruelly nibbles (bites) on my nipples. I have no hope of self-control when she does this and sometimes she'll remove her stroking hand and use it to torture the other nipple leaving me to finish off myself. This is very intense, quite painful and results in some of the most forceful orgasms that I have experienced.

    I love the feel of satin caressing my nether regions and she likes the easy clean up. "Do you want to make the panties wet?" Yeah, at that point I'm completely feral and unable to control myself. So hot.
     
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    If I get a hand job, ill be kneeling on the bed and my partner will be seated on a stool next to the bed.

    She likes to draw my cock back between my legs so I have no control over what she does.

    We call it reverse milking. If I am in any other position it will be a ruined orgasm if she is doing it. Reverse milking means ill get a full orgasm
     
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    She likes to get it all out quickly, it makes her arm ache
     
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    A hand job is the only way I get an orgasm any longer. She likes to get on her side alongside me with me turned 45 degrees away from her. She begins caressing my body all over and teasing me to a very heightened state before she gets out the key. She insists my arms are fully overhead and won't allow me to touch her even though I desperately want to return the favor.

    Once I've got the cage removed, she continues taking her time before she focuses on my penis. Most recently, when she's ready to finish me off, she's been taking my nipple in her mouth and teasing it with her tongue while lightly caressing me penis head with lube. When i finally cum, the orgasm is very intense! Although I think that since much of the stimulation comes from other body parts including my nipple near the end, it leaves me wanting more. Within the next 24 hours, I get extremely horny and am ready for it to happen again. This is where chastity keeps me honest and transitions my hormones into pleasing her.
     
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    When she circles my balls with one oily hand, and pulls my balls away with a squeeze, and slowly strokes my cock until I am begging to cum.
     
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    Favourite. Sitting between my legs. The two handed massage. The more lube the better.

    Worst. Just one finger or knuckle etc. The frustration of needing more connection.
     
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    The rare occasions I get one it will be two fingers and thumb, with lots of verbal about sph, cuckold, ect.
     
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    Oh yes love the verbal encouragement. He tells me how he owns my cock, that it's his plaything and he can do whatever he wants with it.
     
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    Absolutely love it!


    That one can be intense...
    Definitely want to make sure that your mistress knows about this one, so she can add it to her repertoire if she so desires.


    So frustrating! And you know she did it on purpose...
     
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    Tied, teased, edged over and over, begging, lots and lots of begging, great orgasm followed by lots and lots and lots (obviously my favorite part) of post orgasm torture followed by more begging and much more begging to please stop.
     
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