Chastity Male and Penis-in-Vagina Sex

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    Yesterday my Mistress and I had a date, where I was allowed to go without cage and have real sex with the other couple's female sub

    She's a really gorgeous women, 6ft+, real big breast and we know each other for long time.

    We had fun with each other, my Mistress with her husband (both of them are Devs) and the woman with me. I made her cum with my hand and toys only and she started to give me a blowjob, but I wanted to experience my first real Penis-in-Vagina-Sex (PiV) for a long time.

    My penis didn't stay hard, when I tried to fuck her - my head told me NO. I couldn't last for longer than a few strokes.

    So, we reverted to a blowjob and I was really able to cum and fill her mouth - obviously no biological malfunction.

    Meanwhile my Mistress was still having fun with the male sub - he has a bigger cock than me and made her cum real hard.

    Question to all the male chaste subs here: Do you feel the same, that PiV feels wrong, not arousing?

    Question to the Ladies here: Have you observed similar behavior of male subs?
     
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    we don’t have the same extra couple dynamic as you do, but no, we both absolutely love PIV, tho it is always done her way and to her satisfaction and to whatever ends she wants, all of which i am ok with.
     
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    Being locked and denied makes us all a poor performer when it comes to piv. Most of us are locked due to the very fact that we were all poor performers. Our slim and not so hard dicks never satisfied our ladies much in the first place hence somehow we found a way to get ourselves locked.

    We should keep our voices low when talking to our women and look down mostly. And ofcourse piv will never be our strong point.
     
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    I think it is hilarious the way you speak as if you are talking for everyone here. Thank God we have a totally different lifestyle where we have regular sex and love and respect each other.

    To the original question- I have found that with a week of being locked up I get rock hard much faster than usual and stay hard (and physically harder) much longer (I also sometimes use a cock ring when we have had a good bit of alcohol which really helps). Since I am no longer worried about needing to keep up the pace to stay a rock I can slow down and prolong things to focus on her.

    I do think once you hit a certain length of lockup time you start to head the opposite way and worry about cumming quick and staying hard which probably stems from nervousness and lack of practice.
     
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    I envy you. No rock hard for me even after taking Viagra. And I'm only 34. Your wife loves you and respects you because you provide her with a satisfying fuck. But men like me who lack in performance, how can their ladies love such men ?
     
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    My wife and I love and respect each other for many reasons, what happens in the bedroom is a minor one of them...
     
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    No problem with erections here. I've been locked over two years.

    My wife still enjoys piv. Her desire is not as frequent as mine, but that's one of the reasons we are here in the first place.

    Our foreplay consist of me going down on her, usually two orgasms and she will tell me to go find the key and unlock. It's usually in only a couple different spots.

    Once I'm free I get back in bed and it's business time. She has never really orgasmed from penetration alone so we make love nice and slow. She has to have her clitoris stimulated and she will usually climax two more times while I'm inside her.

    She will let me know when she has had her fill and that's my cue to get to finish. We always try to finish together on her last orgasm. The last one she likes a fast pace and that helps me finish pretty quick.

    Most of the time we finish together. Sometimes we don't. Just depends on the night.

    She did surprise me last date night and let me unlock before we left. Maybe that will become more frequent....
     
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    Sounds like heaven...
     
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    We usually have PIV once per week, and I am usually allowed to cum with her (I probably couldn't help it).

    I am always left unlocked over night, and in the morning I am permitted to ask for a quicky, But I never do, instead I stroke looking at her butt, it feels wrong for me to use her body, so I dont although sometimes I am tempted because I know she will let me. When I used to for some reason I did sometimes struggle to get hard just because I knew it was just for me. I dont have any trouble stroking tho
     
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    Question to all the male chaste subs here: Do you feel the same, that PiV feels wrong, not arousing?

    As a sub, I have felt for years that PIV is wrong, it seems to me to be a dominant act which is not appropriate for a submissive. For decades it was not arousing and did little for me on the rare occasions when a lady expected it.
     
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    For us PIV is the ultimate goal. Being in Chastity with teasing and denial prolongs the anticipation and keeps me in constant stae of arousal. So when she is ready for PIV we are both so turned on. It usually starts with a spanking for me and oral for both of us followed by a slow confertable screw, we are both exhausted at the end. After some after care the cage goes back on
     
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    No, I do not feel that way and neither does my wife.

    While we have sex very often, intercourse in itself became a somewhat rare thing between the two of us. At the same time it also became much more intimate and special to the two of us.

    And I seriously doubt that my wife would like it if I felt about it any other way.^^
     
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    Well mixed feelings. I am starting to think it is wrong and is not consistent with the mindset of being submissive. You are right it is a dominate act and an act of being in power but it still arouses me even in my cage when we are spooning up together in bed with my Mistress and start pressing my cage into her thinking or wishing I was in her.
    But I am not allowed piv and think this really helps me be more submissive and respect her for the beautiful Mistress she is rather than pounding her like years gone by.
    She always tells me I will never be in her again and I have no doubt of that.
     
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    I don't feel like it's wrong, but on rare occasions when it happens I need to be on the bottom so as to not feel like the dominant partner. I should not dictate the pace.

    I do feel like coming is wrong and with PIV there's no way I can avoid it, it just feels too good.
     
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    PIV is wonderful. We have it whenever she wants it. Half of me wants it every day, like we did until a few years back. Half of me wants her to enjoy her PIV orgasms and not let me cum now. 100% of me knows that it's always her decision.
     
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    Of all the sexual acts you can do, PIV is the most intimate and bonding sex act for me. If no PIV ever happens it doesn't feel like a real relationship to me
     
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    Thats not our dynamic at all. If anything, I am a bit too long for my Master and have to be careful not to hurt her. I used to last almost too long. The cage is to reinforce her control and stop me from masterbating. As we get older, she would want PIV but if I already got myself off that day it wasnt happening or it was lack luster. The downside is I cum way to fast after getting unlocked.
     
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    It's not about "performance" - the change is in my head. Did anybody else loose the DESIRE to have PiV (not the desire to have an orgsam).
     
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    It's wonderful to hear that another couple shares mostly the same dynamic as us. Thank you for sharing that with us.
     
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    Not true for everyone, husband is locked because he could not stop playing with himself and I had low sex drive. When we did have sex it was very enjoyable but because he was jerking off it put a damper on things. Now that he is locked 24/7 unless he’s with me makes a world of difference and both of our sex drives are through the roof. We have never had so much sex since we’ve been together and we have been together for almost 20 years!
     
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    I think what you just said s the best possible goal of MC. A much improved sex life for both parties even if he has far fewer O's.
     
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    I'm with @Cagedandinlove -- PIV is not consistent with being submissive. It's certainly arousing, but it is not something I should experience, except perhaps on the rarest of occasions, like on our Anniversary. PIV necessarily involves erections, and erections are destablizing for me, they reawaken old alpha male traits and thoughts and encourage behavior patterns that are not appropriate for me as a developing submissive beta husband. I'm a better husband when my submissiveness kicks in deep into chastity, when I begin to accept that erections and intercourse and ejaculation are not for me. I need to be on my knees worshiping her divine sexuality, and affirmatively denied what I know other men get, in order to foster greater development of my submissiveness.
     
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    Not being able to get an erection and really wanting to be able to while you are caged really does hammer home the submissive feeling. So powerless and respectful when you can't have either pentitration, erections or orgasm.
    You are so right.
     
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    I’ve only just started chastity but haven’t had piv with my partner for over 10yrs I don’t really miss it either I just enjoy giving her the pleasure
     
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