Hello all, First of all sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I think this section is for introduce myself so let's go. I'm a cis male married since 10 yeas in my mid 30's, in love of my lovely wife. I am more kinky than my wife (she's pretty vanilla) and have played with my kinks since I was teenager and tried chastity first time 8 years ago. I have never telled to my wife about my kinks since December 2020 and my coming out (about chastity) was a hard time. She has a bad background with her sexuality (rapped when she was youger) and we had a dead bedroom. After I find out she was cheatting on me, we had a big fight. We almost got divorced, but we are very in love and we decided to follow a couple therapy and a sexual therapy. During that i can explain my kink and how I work sexually. This helped so much and now she's more open about that. We are making baby steps together in this world and i'm so happy. For her it's seems it's ok but not sure she's very excited by that... But maybe in the future she'll truly like it. I hope. I'm here for exchange about tips, and how not push here. Sometimes think I top from the bottom, and i don't want that but after 10 years without the possibilty to be trully you it's hard to now what's the good way to communicate and help her to understand this world. Have a nice day.
Welcome among us. You wrote that in December 2020 you confessed to her your fantasies related to chastity. But in these months/years you practiced it. Has she become your keyholder?
Since 3 or 4 months yes, but before no. She just allow me to be self caged, but since we have started our therapy she understand more my chastity desire, so now yes. We go in holiday in March, and she became my keyholder during our trip
Hello! Looking forward to hearing about the journey you and your wife have begun and to see how your relationship changes as things progress. I hope it's a great experience for you both.
No orgasms for you in the last 3 weeks? How are you feeling? Have you still been physically intimate together during this 3 week session?
0 orgasm for me since I asked her to cage me, it's hard but i'm very horny. And i like that so much. Yes we have been physically intimate, lot of cuddling, and making out. I had pleased her with my mouth and my fingers one time during this 3 weeks. She bite my ears some times and pinch my nipples too
3 weeks with no orgasms! Congratulations! Do you find that you are having a hard time keeping your hands off her? Are you touching her a lot more often?
A warm Bonjour from Belgium, it seems your story is a bit hard, my wife has also bad beggening with sexuality like yours I guess it condition you on your futur sexual life. feel free to talk if you want.