Was reading some chastity related articles that all had the premise, "he's masturbating more than you think... some up to 3-5 times per week." Those are rookie numbers, right? Or am I just a massive creep?
Yeah, I'm aware of this article. Good site even if this article is a bit comically naive. This thread might help. https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...uch-did-you-masturbate-before-chastity.46206/
I hardly ever masturbated in the last ten years or so before chastity. As a teen, daily and plenty of days were multiple times. What’s funny, since we’ve started chastity the last few years, is now when my Wife will occasionally give me a few days or a week off from the cage, I almost can’t resist jerking off. She gave me some freedom recently and I had to confess to her that I jerked off 3 days in a row before she had me lock up again. She was not happy at all and I’m surprised she didn’t whip my ass for it, although I have a feeling my next maintenance spanking she will not have forgotten about my disobedience
Before OD and then chastity as lifestyle choices I would pull off on average 3 times a day. Sometime much more. It was relaxing.
Exactly. Three square Os a day. Mix and match: Rosy Palm, PIV, getting head ... I might be at three square Os a month now but I'm much happier.
I didn't think I had a masturbation "problem" because it wasn't all that frequent, or at least that's what I remember. But since I know my frontal lobe was suppressed by the activity and the porn, I'm sure I don't remember it all that well. Plus my guilt of pleasuring myself behind my wife's back made me further suppress the memories of it. I do realize that I'm addicted to masturbating based on the urges that are triggered by certain memories, stress, guilt feelings, depression, etc. If this 90 day reboot I'm on doesn't help, my wife won't be happy! She looks forward to the day the cage isn't in the way and she can have easy access to her toy. But she's resigned to the fact we'll need to give it a year at least and that we might find we need to go back to it at times.
Husband used to do it frequently if I wasn't available for a while because I was working or whatever. Since I introduced chastity and Domestic Discipline, it doesn't happen as often any more. He knows I can check his computer any time and if I find pornography I assume he's masturbated and I schedule a Disciplinary Session. He doesn't delete his history so I can find out if I want to. We do an annual break between just before TG to just after V-Day. Husband calls it our "Holiday Hiatus". No spankings, no chastity and he can't be disciplined for anything he does during that time. Don't think, however, I don't look at his computer or take note when he's rude to somebody and keep a mental note. His first Disciplinary Session of the year is often long and severe and preceded by a longer period of chastity.
I used to masturbate 2 - 3 times a day before we started the wife led marriage. Now I never masturbate and get an orgasm every 2 - 3 months
Once every 2-3 months! OMG! I'm committed to a 90 day denial period right now but don't want that to be my new normal. I enjoy O's too much. I was hoping for something like once every 2-3 weeks. I sure hope my wife/KH agrees.
well it a good job that all the men on here that was making mess lots and lots of time and now locked up and cant do it else they shud not be on chastity cos they cheating.
I took a month long break from chastity in May and literally wore away the skin on two spots on my penis. I'm all healed now but man was that alot of masterbating in a month. Glad to be back in my cage.
Used to be once a day for me, sometimes more. Since we started this 2 months ago I haven’t been allowed, or able, to masturbate at all and have only had 3 full orgasms. For the past 3 weeks I’ve been only allowed ruins about once a week when she unlocks me because she wants to have sex, and I might have an opportunity for a full orgasm on July 8th. If she decides against it I’ll have to wait anywhere from one to six weeks until my next chance (she rolls a die to decide the length of denial).
Until My Mistress locked me I was twice a day usually. It’s much better now. Now I’m locked almost 24/7 except for when she want me inside her which thankfully is almost every morning but I haven’t been allowed to cum for more than 2 months.
I'm reminded of something I saw on Reddit the other day. Question: Do you think people masturbate or brush their teeth more often? Answer: Who the fuck brushes their teeth five times a day?
I used to masturbate about 10~15 times per week. When my wife dinf out, locked me. Now she release me once a week; sometimes we have sex, other I just masturbate and some I only clean and go back to cage. No more free sleep since locked.