Hello everyone. I have roughly a $2000 budget for a belt. Our dynamic is mainly FLR with some ABDL aspects which includes diapering at night and sometimes during the day. I am currently comparing the she male belt from neosteel with the transformation belt from my-steel. Does anyone have experience with extended use in this scenario? My main concern is cleanliness and how a belt may hold up over time under a diaper. Any guidance is greatly appreciated!
So being abdl myself, I've found a few things about long-term and full belts: * Messing is out, if that's your thing. It will get everywhere and in everything and require belt removal. The belts are fine for normal defecation, but a diaper is going to spread things out. * You want something that is least likely to chafe, as you're already going to be exposing that area to skin breakdown. You might even consider going off your list and just getting a neosteel fun (or marvellous to at least have the shield). Avoid anything that has a rubbery liner in the crotch, especially because of the final point: * Strong zinc oxide diaper cream everywhere all the time, especially in the tube. Usually this has oil or silicone in it, so if your belt liner has incompatibility, you're gonna have a bad time. If you skip out on cream, you'll also likely have a bad time.
Thank you so much for the advice, one900goat. I'm just getting started with the chastity part, but a lifelong abdl.
This is some great info. I would second what everyone has said, avoid anything with a silicone liner. Choose something with a minimal amount of surfaces to clean. Neosteel has the arch/fun, arch/fun with shield ("Marvelous"), or the sports belts to choose from.
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I wear diapers a lot with nmy regular cage. I haven't had any issues so far, but I also haven't messed.