Last night was finally the first denial that Ann's guilt didn't take over to give me release. It still feels good this morning, yes I am all ramped up extremely horny still but it will make a release someday be awesome. I have a very strong drive that has done nothing but increase since I can't masturbate anymore and now even more taking her over the edge last night and watching her climax so hard, she was so beautiful. Afterward she lay on my chest and fell fast asleep while my heart was pounding out of my chest with extreme desire to have her. Keeping me awake for a long time I played with her fair and massaged and hugged on her all night, it was wonderful. I am hoping she will deny me several more times before she gives in and releases me. Today is my 4th day with one denial, lol I know I am a lightweight but I have a sex drive that screams to be fed every day. I will be climbing the walls by this weekend but that is ok, the eventual reward is so worth it. I am craving to be inside her like a teenager this morning. Pleasing her is everything. If a man has never tried this he can't understand the value of doing it. Only a few of us find the courage to do it.
Congrats to the both of you! Being denied is a gift from her to you. Your devotion and service to her will be even more since you were denied. Keeping you in your cage is so powerful.
Congrats! I still remember the first time my Wife(KH) denied me without feeling any guilt and the look on Her face of Her pure enjoyment in denying me. Great feeling!
The first time @Mistress-M denied me I couldn't believe the extra energy I had the next day and how good it felt. It's definitely something every man should try I think!
Yes and every women ;-) Being on the other side is just as exciting and such a turn on to hold that power over you and your desires. M x
If you’re lucky, she’ll get even hornier from that power she holds over you! My wife certainly has, she really loves to flaunt it on weekend mornings when I used to always try to get morning sex and she would complain a bit and started denying it. Now she really loves it when I wake her with my tongue and she gets an orgasm to wake up. She says it’s so nice to get an orgasm to start her day and not even worry about my penis being in there or making a mess lol. These are times I remind myself I asked for this and it created a monster
It wasn't all that long ago that I thought sex was for my orgasms and thus my pleasure. I feel that I have now discovered a pleasure beyond orgasm, by serving the woman I love and making her orgasms my top priority. Nothing else matters. Glad to hear that @John&Ann are enjoying themselves and have a very exciting future ahead.
My Wife reminds me that I love being denied, and that SHE loves denying me. Alpha and vanilla boys don't 'get it' at ALL. But we understand it. It's a power exchange at a very deep, primal level. It's validation of her leading the relationship, and me respecting and submitting to that leadership.
My KH told me she would uncage me after Loctober…but then she did this for NOvember. That was a long 2 months!
I wanted to comment and ask a follow up question. My wife and keyhholder has also started enjoying having an orgasm without allowing me to climax too. It was hard for her at first because she felt guilty not allowing me an orgasm when she just had one herself. I think we have reached a milestone in our journey. She has only denied me for 1.5 weeks so far. I hope she pushes me further this next time. I so enjoy the effect male chastity has on me and how I view my wife. I was never a mean or disrespectful husband before, but now I worship her so much. Our relationship and sex life has skyrocketed lately. I can’t wait to call or text her during work to ask her how her day is going. I never used to do that before, not sure why, but I love it. So, here’s my question, what is the next step or milestone in this male chastity world? After orgasm denial, what can I look forward to? I understand this is a hard question because we are all so different, but what came next for you?
I think the answer to your question lies with your wife and where she wants to take things. When my girlfriend denies me, I feel a rush of love for her and I feel desperate to make her happy in any way that she likes. I feel a genuine need to behave subserviently and obediently and nothing makes me happier than doing things for her as a demonstration of my love. We're still in the "feeling guilty" phase too, but we are working on that and it is definitely getting better, as she grows more confident that behaving dominantly is making me happy. Her whole demeanour and attitude is gradually changing and she is starting to enjoy having me at her beck and call. I really don't know how far this will develop, but that is now entirely up to her. We have had lots of discussion about it and where we'd each like to go with it, but I am careful not to make that about me and what I want, keeping the focus on her. Perhaps you could do the same with your wife and see what she wants.
I have the exact same feelings after my Queen denies me. I can’t wait to please her in anyway possible, however, I have been told repeatedly that I am not supposed to talk with her about this new lifestyle. I can’t ask her questions, she will not read articles or visit website’s like Chastity Mansion. No communication whatsoever about it. She doesn’t even like seeing me in a cage. I have to actually void her gaze after getting out of the shower. Now that I think about it, maybe that’s our next milestone, she accepts the cage and doesn’t mind seeing me in it. I don’t think she will ever want to talk with me about it. She never has been one to openly talk with me about sex.