Hubby will be receiving his cages today and figuring out which one he will be wearing and tonight will be his last night of freedom for awhile. I’m not sure how I feel about this but I am excited too see what it does for us and our relationship. I will keep this updated as our journey goes along!
Don’t put too much pressure on yourselves. Most people find they can’t go overnight the first time they put on a new cage. Good luck.
You are both really committed! With plastic devices you ll need to clean the contents quite often to avoid a nasty smell. You should tie his hands away before releasing it and cleaning everything then either relocking or giving him a teasing erection...before icing it and relocking. That will ramp him up.
If he turns out to be suited for multi-day lock-ups, you have just had your life changed for the better!! It's the Holy Grail for you. And it will improve his life as well, even if it takes him a year or two to understand that, lol! But honestly, success out of the gate is rare. Practice short-term lock-ups, a few hours at most, and let him and his skin break in. Success 'out-of-the-box' is rare, and it takes a few tries (and experience) to learn what device will permit multi-day lock-ups. I wish you and him the best of luck.
Thank you for the advice, l really appreciate it and I know he will too in the long run. He is doing much better then I expected him too and that makes me happy. If he has been wearing most of today should I make him take it off and see what happens or keep it on him? I think he enjoys it!
He probably does enjoy it, at least until that first night time woody! It can wake a dude up quick, fast and in a hurry. It will subside, peeing, walking around and heck even doing push ups will calm things down.
Things are going really well and it has opened up more kinks for us. We have figured out we are both switches and he wants too be pegged and I find that incredibly hot. So glad we are doing this together and slowly!
Penetrating a guy IS incredibly hot. Like you say, do that slowly. Don't buy one of those monster things you see in pornography and expect him to be able to take it right out of the gate, if ever. I started husband out small with something a little larger than his penis. His is small side of average: a little too big for the CB-6000s. It took a while, but I have him worked up to the size of a very well hung guy. I don't plan on using any of those monster size things on him. I find it adds to the excitement if I have him perform "fellatio" on me when I'm strapped up. I make him do it just like he likes me to do it for him: lick the testicles and the shaft, run his tongue up and down and around the head and put the scrotum in his mouth before he mouths the penis. Welcome to CM and i hope you enjoy your adventure.