Just looking for some feedback to see if what I feel is shared or whether I'm just an odd one out My level of horniness varies unpredictably during an extended lock-up but when I do get the urges they seem to fall into one of two categories: Physical - This is when my body is fully on-board with the chastity and denial. My cock is straining in the cage and the wonderful deep tingles are in full force Mental - My mind is willing but the body is sulking. I want to be aroused but my body is having none of it. The best I can get is semi-hard in the cage and no tingles. Personally, number 2 is the most frustrating for me. At least with the first category I am getting some physical feedback but the second just leaves me helpless - "Nope, not today. Nada. Zip. Hopefully you'll feel different tomorrow. But for now all you can do is wait" Of course, there is the third option which is "You are an oddball. I don't get this nor understand what you are describing". An equally valid choice in the poll Let me know what you think, please.
I find my physical reactions are either from some sort of mental stimulation, like talking to a Dominant or seeing a searing sexual video (e.g., the one where wife is paddling husband) or are tied to night time erections. Both are in a way pleasing, not frustrating, as they are the most concrete expression of my sexual desires. On the other hand, mentally i'm aware of my caged condition a majority of the time i'm awake. Even if occupied with chores or other activities, the knowledge that i no longer control my own sexual needs is there. But that is something i realize is necessary if i am to serve as a submissive.
I agree! I find mental stimulation to be the biggest turn on you can get. My madam can just say don’t it to me and I am trying to get harder than ever!
I voted for answer 1, but for me the most frustrating is when the urge for an orgasm is at its peak. Usually that is accompanied with a raging erection but not always - sometimes I am only semi-hard. Generally though I find physical and mental tensions often occur simultaneously. The absolutely most frustrating times - though of course the most wonderful too - are during prolonged teasing play with my Mistress!
i find it frustrating when i have an erection in my cage, but am unable to do anything about it even though i want to get my cock out and masturbate i cant, but also when my wife is messing with my head constantly telling me that even though my cock still gets hard there's no way its ever going in her pussy again, another frustration but i find it highly erotic.