I'm quite new and inexperienced, but have researched and learned for a while. I've just started trying to go more than a single scene, with thoughts of trying a lighter version of Locktober. About 48 hours ago, I locked on my cage, and it's stayed there so far, with brief removals to fix minor issues as I figure this stuff out. I'm planning to see how long I can comfortably manage to stay caged and chaste during Locktober- just to learn more about how this all will work. All of this is just the setup for my experience of my first nighttime / morning wood erections. I was quite surprised to find that I get great enjoyment from them, instead of the legendary pain I'd been reading about in my research. My cage does the "ice cream cone> thing, where the cage, base ring, balls, and penis move out and are hovering above my erected shaft, with my scrotum pulled out quite tightly. This is something I've seen people post pictures about, and always thought "ouch". I assumed that pain was the only expected experience. What I found, however, is that the pain so far has been nonexistent or very tiny, and my cock and balls have become incredibly sensitive. I've always taken a lot of stimulation and a long time to orgasm. Now, when this happened, I almost came instantly when I reached down to adjust the angle of everything. A gentle touch to my balls or penis almost got me there. I was more sensitive on those tightly-stretched balls than I've ever been. I've managed to calm everything down each time so far, I've also gotten in this state while eating out my wife, with similar effects. I'm a bit worried that I won't be able to avoid orgasm if this keeps happening like this. Is this common? I haven't heard of it before, and am sure that I'm going to wake with a very painful problem at some point, just to "balance the karma" of this experience. Any hints on how to stop the "automatic edge" from happening in the first place?
I experience them almost any night i'm locked. I like how it reinforces the feeling of being controlled, excited but unable to release. Cocks are meant to get erect and when that is denied or repressed it makes for a surge of submissive feelings, at least for me. Good luck and enjoy as you go further.
Hmmm no. Morning wood generally wake me up, arouse me but can I come because the scrotum, balls, and glans are hypersensitive? No. In fact the "ice cream cone effect" wreaks havoc with my ring/cage apparatus and destabilizes it to the point it falls of or need reinstallation. My KH/spouse likes to see me moan, groan and struggle with my erections however.
Even though i often have issues with a ball slipping past my ring, it is odd that such erection attempts don't really mess with my cage performance. I don't have the ball slippage with them. All they do is signal my continued lack of control over my basic desires.
Personally I quite enjoy them! Nothing like trying to burst out the cage without being able to. Just being left frustrated! Mrs Chaste is a great fan! Nothing she enjoys more than getting me hard and turning my balls blue and then stopping!
I love the feeling too. However, I get more satisfaction from looking at the marks and indentations on my limp penis from the time spent staring against the wall of my Jailbird. It quite a tease knowing that you were so excited that you got an erection but couldn't do anything to satisfy yourself and all your left with is an imprint from the device that staves off pleasure.
I prefer getting a chubby while caged over a full erection attempt. It never fails that when I attempt erection a lot of blood that rushes to the area seems to get kind of trapped and it can be quite uncomfortable for a little while until everything calms down. Especially at night time. But a nice little chubby while getting teased makes me feel all warm and fuzzy.
In the morning after Mistress picks out my panties for the day, and inspects my cage she teases and pinches my nipples. The result, of course, is that my cage gets very tight. I get a pat on my ass an told to get dressed and get my day going. I love the nipple play, but the tightness reminds me I’ll be locked for another day at her pleasure.
I love the sensations and emotions associated with being incredibly horny while my attempts at an erection are firmly kept in check by my steel cage. Prior to chastity, that would have been resolved quickly and secretly with masturbation. Since being kept in chastity all it does is adds fuel to the fire. The submissive emotion of knowing my key holder does not approve of solo masturbation and through chastity is denying me that self-pleasure to better serve her needs and desires is made clear by feeling the unyielding steel cage grip and pressure of the ring behind my balls.
I don't enjoy getting restricted erections from chastity wear, but I don't mind them if I am getting them from my wife.
I love the swelling in the cage, but a couple times I’ve taken cialis in anticipation of being allowed an orgasm later that day, only to be denied….that is not comfortable at all lol. But just the average attempts at an erection, or just the chubbing up from kissing or quick teases from my Queen, I crave those
You mean attempts? Before I had the fit figured out it used to do what you describe but not it can’t. I get a swelling up enough to push some skin through the bars but it is contained enough to not go far. That being said I do like it as you get that feeling of a hard on coming, only to see it get stopped dead. Lol.
Thanks for all the replies- guess this is a lot more common than I expected. Reading about wearing a cage before I did more than short time periods left me with the impression that erections ( or attempts ) were always problematic and painful. I sure didn't expect a new way to enjoy things. I agree with feeling some "subby" feeling watching it pushing, yet being confined. The experience of everything feeling so sensitive, but unable to "finish" is really an amazing surprise. I actually experimented with trying to go ahead and finish, though that was against the rules since I'm not supposed to even try. Had to tell her about that, so she could decide on anything that she wished to do about it. It's very sensitive when in this state, but doesn't seem to be able to progress to finishing. I actually don't get any pre-cum coming out, either, despite it being enough sensation that I'd expect it. Some pre-cum comes out when the erection fades. I actually think that the ring becomes tight enough with the expansion that it's blocked off until that fades. Definitely different than I expected as a novice. Here's hoping that your chastity experience has some nice surprises from time to time. Hope you all can find new surprises and moments of fun in your daily chastity experience.
It varies with experience. I'm one who complains to anyone who will listen how much I miss erections when I'm caged. I've been continuously caged for six weeks now and all I can do is become uncomfortable in the confines of my cage. Nothing beats getting that rush of testosterone in the morning and just throbbing in your cage while you're just waking up. If you can't do anything about it, that's as good as it gets.