Caged at the beach

We did the same. A week in St. Lucia.

Nobody will notice.

But it's still a thrill.

 

I agree, more than likely no one will notice unless you want them to, such as letting the device peek out from under your swim suit a bit when laying out in the sun or she openly displays the key. Then again, only those in the know will understand the significance of her choice of jewelry.

Complete this level of being open to the world and I would bet you'll both be ready to advance to a clothing optional beach.

 

You will never know until you try.

Sort of the beauty of a clothing optional beach. If neither of you are enjoying the experience, you can always put your swim suit back on and cover up.

 

What I'd say is if you're worried, don't wear a speedo-style suit. That'll make it much more likely to notice a bulge.

I'll also say be careful as you take that first step out of the pool, most normal style suits will stick briefly from the water/suction action and the cage might be briefly noticeable. I've found its pretty easy to cover this though with some maneuver that makes it look like you're trying to avoid it (exactly what probably depends on exactly the cut of your suit vs. your body type).

Enjoy

 

Have you swam (swum?) with your cage on before? Something about being in water makes my balls vey capable of escaping from the ring. Make sure you don’t end up having to retrieve your cage from the bottom of the pool!

 

Try your swimming costume in advance and look at it. Is it really noticeable? Remember, other people are not going to be staring at your crotch, so it's only a quick glance. It's unlikely to be noticeable but just check first. Good luck.

 

black is discreet

 

White ones look great, but it would be quite a challenge on the beach. Quite noticeable I must say...

 

I mean you're going to a resort that's (a) adults only and (b) you're probably never going to meet anyone from there again. That might be the only "vanilla" circumstances where I go a little more exhibitionist and let the cage show through clothing more.

Just keep in mind it's adults only so talk it over with your wife if you get any offers to swing or whatever from anyone who does notice. It's vacation, some people might be more bold.

With that in mind, go for it. But the white is pretty noticeable in the pictures and blue-striped one a little bit noticeable. The black seems discreet.

 

If you’ve got the hips for these then go for it!

 

I'm caged going to the pool or beach, always. My wife does not to see the outline of my cage in my trucks/swimsuit. I'm required to pack my swimmers jock strap on vacation and wear in to help hide my cage. It does the trick, it really flattens me out. I'm not what I would think is worse, seeing my cage outline (barely) or the straps on my back side from the jock?
Once back to our room I have to wash my jock and hang it to dry in the bathroom. I'm sure housekeeping enjoys that!

 

Wisdom

 

I agree!

you think everyone will notice and be staring, when In fact hardly anyone will give you a second look. But Those that know will know, enjoy!

 

This topic has had some of the best and most practical replies I have ever read.
Well done everybody.

 

I'm of the opinion that wearing a sex toy at the beach is a bit odd. You can say it's body jewellery but to anyone performing a google search it's a sex toy used to play sex games.

Imagine if someone called the police just because they were unsure what was going on, and then you get to spend a day at the police station being interviewed about it, or worse they arrest you and you end up on the local news.

 

I would definitely be staring at the J of hearts suit because of the logo,, then notice the cage with an approving smile.
All three look great. Try wearing them in the shower to see how they will cling.
Please post those pics.

 

Why would someone call the policy?
And even if so, your key holder could deescalate very easily:

"Sir, no need to be worried, I put him already behind bars. And he will stay there for a very long time."


Feathers.sub

 

Have a look at our profile. I was caged at the beach and everyone noticed lol

 

@pcharl69 : Congrats to you and your wife on your upcoming vacation adventure!

From reading your posts it sounds like you are comfortable, and (not so secretly) hoping to take this to the next level.
With this in mind, I vote for the white "J" suit, but wonder if it goes far enough?
Perhaps (if time permits) you and your lady might care to look for some "level 2" alternatives (for the inevitable escalation).
I have not bought here, but something like this site might suit (if you will excuse the pun)?

Put another way it reads as though part of you is hoping for some notice, while another part is holding back.
I would say, leave the "holding back" part at home for the vacation and let go and commit to the exciting potential for the duration.
If you do not have a good time, you can resume your old self upon returning home (and chalk it up to experiences gained).

I also vote for a CO beach experience if/when possible.
Start out both with suits on, and disrobe at your own pace.
For this, do not put it in peoples faces as some are there for the enjoyment of naturism / nudism and not for the kink aspect.
Just be cool, enjoy the experience as others are, and go at your own pace (same goes for your lady).
It is perfectly fine for one / several of a party to be in mixed dress / undress in such a setting.
Perhaps your lady might care to remain in swim-wear (until / if she chooses otherwise), while commanding you to be otherwise (for reasons you two can figure out on your own)?

Remember you are sharing a public space with others, as they are sharing it with you (all with an open mind.)