Seeking Keyholder for Accountability

Hello, I'm seeking a keyholder to hold me accountable for my goal oriented chastity. My goals currently are to loose weight at a challenging rate, open up about my kinks/fetishes online (Posting pictures, joining groups, just generally being more healthy and open with myself about my kinks instead of living in denial (Yes, I understand denial to prevent denial, "real original hyuk hyuk hyuk")).

I'm not looking for anything sexual, it would be nice to know what who I'm working with looks like but not necessary. What I would like to do initially is have a discussion about what would be the best way to go about this, and see if there is a reasonable way to go about this. To get started some of my considerations are accountability, honesty, communication, failure, success.

Accountability, there needs to be some sort of negative reaction for failing, disappearing, etc. Possibly outing here as a fraud? Or on places such as fetlife, twitter, or perhaps such a verbal roasting that the subject feels entirely defeated. (And since I think it'll come up after the last sentence, no that is definitely not a kink of mine, I very much seek validation and avoid harsh criticism at all costs). I think honesty works into this one as well, perhaps daily validation of the plastic seal which can only be removed by being broken.

Communication, daily or every few days, whatever really.


Anyways this post is long enough for the moment, please feel free to pm me if you didn't want to post publicly.

Thank you

 

Well I've never thought of it that way, I wonder if my view on it is a little more odd or off than I thought.

 

Could you by any chance link that keysafe solution. I've owned a couple of those and have figured out how to crack them relatively easily, oddly enough for reasons both kink related and not.

 

Hey so to answer questions, I was away for a bit, life took a crisis turn. I'm not looking for a keyholder anymore, I had some coming to truth moments with myself and realized the motivation behind my desire for chastity. I'd rather find the right person to hold my key I think. In any case my truth moment is that I'm trans, or rather I really want to be a woman, I've wanted it for 2/3 of my life but have lived in denial until a few weeks ago. I'm sorry I dipped on the thread without any updates to what I was seeking, but as it should be the case, real life concerns should take position above the rest.

Ps it's funny how it's easier to post a confession like that online vs to the people you love.