Hi all, So my wife has me locked whilst she’s out on a girl’s night. This has happened before but it’s the first since the end of “lockdown” but I am still in lockdown. I forgot how excited it makes me and I’m struggling to sleep with him pounding the cage. How do you guys deal with this situation?
Just relax and think about how happy she is to have you at home behaving yourself, and how she’s probably telling her friends about your arrangement right now.
Uh, that was such a difficult night. It’s always been easier before and I am used to going through the night (this will be day 63). The thought of her out last night, surrounded by non-locked men has just got me pounding.
Enjoy your situation. I have been taken to Her "Girls night out" to serve the group iof women as their maid. I was dressed to the occasion. Since I didn't know many of the women that I served, it was difficult and ambarrassing for me to focus on providing service. Very humiliating, but my cage seemed all too small that night!
The "lockdown" isn't over. Neither is the cause. Women should be free to do as they please, and men should be free to support that. After all, if we don't trust women, why are we with them in the first place? Many of us get some pleasure, or stimulation, from women being for themselves without regard for us, or at our expense. Some of us would enjoy seeing women enjoy themselves, even if it causes us discomfort, or pain. Most of us have a desire to serve the women in our lives. My wife doesn't socialize. Neither do I. Nobody comes to our house, we don't go to anyone else's home, either. We don't meet friends, and don't carry social media accounts (this isn't one). We don't do facebook, twitter, or any of the other rubber-boned teenager play houses, either. Should my wife choose to do so, of course, it would be entirely her choice, and should she choose to bring me to serve her friends, that would be okay, too. Just recently my wife determined we're doing locktober this year, though much of it wil be done long-distance. She did determine that when I'm home, there is a chore list, both honey-do's and daily chores, and she decided they'll be done wearing only clothing, and an apron. She chose the apron. Fantasyland might be her inviting friends here, and requiring service for a lunch or event, but that won't happen. It's an interesting thought, though.
As others have said enjoy the situation! If you feel it to overwhelming then try taking your mind off it, maybe watch a movie or read a book.
That's the norm here. She goes out with friends, I'll usually stay home. On occasion when she hosts girls night, I'm here with them, in my regular everyday t-shirt and jeans serving drinks and such. Her few friends that know about our situation will often refer to me as "beer bitch" which usually gets all the others going too.
My wife presented me with a small apron this evening, to be worn when doing household chores. I joked about her hosting friends and being served by her husband, in just the apron. She didn't care for that idea. Made clear she didn't want to hear it again. Not happening. Fair enough.
I guess this is exactly the kind of situation the chastity-encased male needs to learn to cope with. Good luck....
Normal weekend at our home. During the height of the pandemic we had another couple staying with us while their home was being repaired from fire damage. She is a very close friend of my wife and her lover for the last 25 plus years. It was not uncommon during the summer to be out by the pool, the ladies naked and us two guys the same except for wearing our cages while we served them. The ladies would make love to each other while all we could do is sit and watch. Their idea of fucking was one of us locked in the pillory and the other strapped to a bench while our respective wife pegged us. The only times we were let out of our cages was in the confines of our respective bedrooms, no swapping or getting to watch the other couple in action.
I keep telling myself there is life out there. A life like this is so far removed from my world as to be an entirely different one. It's nice to know someone has a life out there, even if it's worlds away.