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    #1 HerHouseSlave, Jun 3, 2021
    Hello everybody,

    My name is Andrew and I live in the UK. I have been married for over 20 years and have been interested in Femdom for much longer than that.

    Unfortunately, I haven't been able to explore femdom with my wife so my play is alone or with professionals. I haven't visited a profession al mistress for several years but I have used online domination quite a few times and really enjoyed it - especially for CEI.

    I am a chronic masturbator and wanted to control this activity as it can be very intrusive, especially when working at home. I bought a metal chastity cage which I really enjoy wearing. For some reason, it enables me to get the stimulation I need but without getting in the way of productivity too much.

    I am looking to expand my knowledge and enjoyment of chastity with some solo and, hopefully, shared games and activities. I'm looking at getting a CB3000 for greater comfort but would appreciate any advice on alternative options.

    I look forward to chatting with you all.

    Andrew / HHS
     
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    #2 MissyB, Jun 3, 2021
    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and enjoyable.
     
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    #3 TonyF25, Jun 3, 2021
    I'm a little guy, so I'm locked in a cb6000s . When I first met my wife she had me in a cb3000 . It fit loosely. The cb6000s is geared for the little guy. I'm in lock 24/7 my has the key so any sexual activity is up to her. I'm a cuckold she is a hotwife, so she has as much sex as she wants . But she is in control of me.
     
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    #4 jemima, Jun 3, 2021
    hello @HerHouseSlave and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well.
    my first cage was a CB one and i think they hurt if you has to have them on for a long time. if you want a plastic one then i think the little Nub one from holytraining is comfy and ok for having lock on for a long time. but metal ones are the best really.
     
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    #5 LesterBallard, Jun 3, 2021
    hello and welcome
     
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    #6 LtdMvmt, Jun 3, 2021
    Hello and welcome to the Mansion. In my experience, the CB devices are severely lacking in the comfort department. Not to mention that they're more tedious than a piece of IKEA furniture to assemble. I can echo the HolyTrainer recommendation.
     
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    #7 sissy veronique, Jun 4, 2021
    Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion there is lots of information here just look around and ask questions.
     
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    #8 Kylara, Jun 4, 2021
    Welcome to the mansion
     
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    #9 HerHouseSlave, Jun 4, 2021
    Thanks for the warm welcome and advice Jemima.

    I had thought that the CB devices were supposed to be comfortable but I will take your word for it as an experienced user. I currently have a metal cage which looks great but isn't very practical as it's quite bulky. Also, the lock bounces against the cage when I walk so that's a bit of a giveaway!

    The Little Nub looks a bit small for me as I am quite large when flaccid, but the others in their range look fine. They certainly look simpler and cheaper than the CB devices!.

    Thanks

    Again :)
     
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    #10 HerHouseSlave, Jun 4, 2021
    Yes, they certainly look complicated! I thunk I'll try Holy Trainer.

    Thanks again.

    A / HHS
     
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    #11 madams-sissysub, Jun 4, 2021
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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