Hello everyone. I'm a submissive 54 YO Australian male trying to sissify myself. I am married, my wife knows about my attraction towards Female Domination and crossdressing but she is not into it at all. As part of my self-feminization and since I find it exciting, I have just started wearing a chastity cage 24/7. I hold my own key which will of course require self discipline. I am hoping that long periods of chastisation will help strengthen a sissy state of mind, ie craving to be feminine and embracing humiliation ( if only in my own mind) while suppressing male urges and wishing to please as a Sissy. I did try chastity years ago with a dominant female who held my key but it did not world out. I have very little to contribute to this community due to my lack of experience. I do hope to learn from others, find answers to questions, and be motivated by you all so I can go as far as possible in this thrilling chastity journey. Thank you for having me!
Hi there, @sissywannabe2! Don’t worry about your lack of experience—everyone starts somewhere, and you’re contributing just by being here. Welcome!
Welcome here to the warm place. Out of my experience, self locking and without teasing by KH will only leave into libido drop.
Welcome to CM, @sissywannabe2 . Please post often and tell us about your progress and frustrations, so that we can hopefully help out.
Thank you. Having a KH is not an option I'm afraid... as for drop in libido - I'm hoping there will be a CHANGE rather, towards a less male-like and more toward "sissy like". .. I'm also hoping that after extended lock time (weeks, maybe months ) I'll be able to achieve sissygasms .