In my attempts to win my wife over to being on board with chastity I found this read, I think its great for those potential key holds that are not 100% sold on male chastity. https://www.independent.co.uk/voice...ge-relationship-sexuality-penis-a8600906.html
I found this one quite great too: https://happy-marriage.neocities.org Definitely targeted at vanilla women
That is a really interesting site. And judging by the content it is pretty up to date. Thanks for sharing.
That is a great article and exactly what I needed to arm myself for “the talk”. My custom cage arrives next week, then, time to talk to wife. We are the very definition of vanilla but after locking myself intermittently avoiding masturbation for the last few months she has noticed a difference. Told me the other day that I’ve been making her feel “cherished”. Chastity quite clearly changes the dynamic in a relationship, very much for the better. I was afraid if I brought it up she would google search it and find mostly pornhub fetish videos. Not what I’m looking for. But this article explains it more in reality.
This is the best article yet I think. When I speak with my wife I will send her this article to read. Fingers crossed.
I’ve seen a couple of articles about chastity in the mainstream media the last few years. Good to see it’s getting recognition at last.
It always helps to have some tame literature for her to read but really it will depend on how much she is willing to try for you. A stronger relationship has a better chance to change vanilla.
My wife enjoyed reading this. It motivated her to wear her key on a necklace where it is visible. She now wants longer lock-ups. I haven't read it but it definitely gave her a better understanding of male chastity. She's mostly vanilla but the article gave her some ideas and perspective. Highly recommend sharing with vanilla wife's who are riding the fence.
Wow! I've just read the first page (and some of the other pages) and this was what I was looking for! I would love to let my wife read this! Thanks! I'm a bit scared, although she already knows about my T&D desires and she often won't let me cum so I think she might be into chastity devices as well.
Link, just in case: http://rwddh.blogspot.com/p/the-book.html Also: http://www.wonder-woman.info/ds/Real Women Dont Do Housework - Fumika Misato.pdf
If you go to the first link and click the book’s title, it leads you to the full text, a PDF on Google Drive.
Wayback machine often helps find old stuff... The book from ^above^ : https://web.archive.org/web/2021031...l Women Dont Do Housework - Fumika Misato.pdf
I love this approach. Whereas a lot of the FLR info here on CM is based on the male being of little worth,. High humiliation factor…, this book uses the Queen and Knight model, not Queen and serf. The Queen is in charge and sets the rules but at the same time admires the Knight and recognizes how important he is. He is her protector and would do anything for her while she admires and compliments him on his areas of prowess. Again, unlike a lot of what is written on this site, the male is a male, not a sissy. I have great respect for couples that use the model of male as subjugated sissy and honestly am frequently jealous. At the end of the day though, I like being male, if I could, I would welcome serving a queen by taking on the role of protector and the day to day running of the castle. Housework. The book is keen on avoiding belittling the male and in fact complimenting his work. When she inspects his housework it is viewed as an opportunity for him to show off his work and be proud, reveling in her praise. I’m afraid I’ve hit a point in life where my ship has sailed and alas I will never have anything like this. But if I were younger, this is the model I would pursue.