Anyone knows?

All my wife's best friends know that i am locked in chastity. Also, they know that she fuck me in the ass.

 

no

 

No, I dont think anyone should have to know about our kinks.

 

As it should be.

My close friends know I’m bi, crossdress and am kinky. The closest know I’m into chastity. Otherwise it’s no one else’s business.

 

Some (or possibly all) of my Keyholder/Mistress's friends. i don't believe i've deliberately revealed the fact to anyone myself.

 

well a lot of folks that Mistress know has seen my one and what most folk say is can i have a look.

 

My Keyholder Wife has told a few of Her Girlfriends when sex came up in Their discussions. I told a good (male) friend of mine when he asked how my Wife and i kept our relationship going so well after 25+ years. I felt like hiding the chastity and Her control would only tell part of the picture.

I totally agree with not involving innocent bystanders in our lifestyle, or kink, what have you, but we feel that setting up a FLR has really helped us and aren't ashamed of it.

asa

 

My beautiful wife/KH has told a few (1-2) close friends, but that's all. Most people won't understand, and I therefore don't share that information. No point in making others feel uncomfortable by giving them information they can't process.

 

My mother in law know, and after a incident last year most of my work place do to.

 

@madams-sissysub, Can you give any more details on that? Must be amazing stories!

asa

 

I did start a thread about it last year, but in brief, I have had a talks with a colleague who I know is in to the bdsm scene as well. We have had a few talks about fetishes in the past, and she was talking to another colleague, who I didn’t know was also in to bdsm. She was talking about keeping men in cages, I thought she ment like actual cages, so I said it’s best to get the collapsible type that pet world sell, so you can hide them easily,
And she said no, I’m on about cock cages! Like yours, and she pointed at my groin!
The other colleague must of then talked to others with the first colleague, and within the hour everyone was taking about cock cages, and googling cock cages, and sharing images of them they had found on the net, and everyone was looking at my groin, and they still are now!

 

It seems to me you work in a very fetish-friendly hospital

 

I have two female friends friends that know.

Mrs. J, our kinky partner in crime knows, Mrs. S, the pro domme friend knows. Mrs. I'd husband knows. She has tried to cage him

Mrs. T has mentioned it to one other person that we now regret. Doubtful she will tell anyone but she tuned out to not be much of a friend.

So six people beside my wife, Mrs. T.

 

I think my Wife(KH) is the only one that knows I wear a cage. She has told me that she might or might not have told one or all of her four Sisters that I'm caged. My Wife(KH) has taken pictures of me tied to our bed and wearing a cage, and has told me she has sent a "couple" to her youngest Sister. I don't think she has, but I'm not 100% sure. I don't think anyone else knows that I'm caged. One of our closest female friends did ask about the key that my Wife(KH) wears around her neck, then gave me a little wink. So maybe she has figured it out...

 

My wifes 2 best girlfriends know. It adds so much humiliation to it and they make fun of me for it too lol .

 

No, not that I (Jack) know off ;D

 

One good mutual friend (who lives a few hundred miles away and we only see maybe once a year or so) found out around 2-3 years ago. She's been in and out of the BDSM world for a while and twiggered into something being up between my wife and I.

And then asked me about it one day in a private message and I had to confess. Which is when I found out how deep she was into the BDSM world as a Domme (but occasional switch). We chatted about it once and a while. She got married about 1.5 years ago and we haven't chatted overly much about it since, since her new hubby is pretty private when it comes to their sex life. My wife knows she knows, but I don't think they've ever had a conversation about it.

 

No and that's how I would like it to stay lol

 

Besides my GF/KH, my lovers and their husbands or SOs, if any, know. Less than 10 in total, I'd say.

 

KH has told her best friend and she has told her husband. As a couple, we are close to them. They don't share our kink, but we often talk about our sex lives openly.

I have told my best friend. He has NOT told his wife as she would not take it well. She's kind of a holier than thou kind of person.

Beyond that, we keep it to ourselves.

 

My wifes sister , my sister in law knows . She spent a lot of time with us and in our home. My wife didn't want it awkward if she found out on her own, or figured it out. So before we married , my wife sat down with her sister and I . My sister in law , who is a paralegal was asked to write a contract, that my wife and I would live by . Everything was explained to her . She was asked to be the emergency key holder .
3 years later she met a guy, and they were going to get married .she felt this guy out to see where his views were on the subject of cross dressing, chastity and cuckolding and hot wife . He made it plain to here, that he had no problem with what people did in there homes. So her sister came to us , and asked if it was ok for him to know, so just incase he saw something on heard something it wouldn't be awkward. We said ok . He knows. It's been 4 years now, and he is accepting and holds it in confidence .
On the kink side she said she told a few of her femdom friends about me . I don't know who she told . But when ever she has guests over , I wonder if they know, if she really to them, it is so embarrassing and humiliating for me to look at a women guest and wonder if she knows.