A Choice I Made (What choices have you made?)

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    #1 HappilyLockedMan, Jan 27, 2021
    My wife is recovering from surgery. Her desire for sex is usually somewhat limited and I know that now it’ll be a long time until she is interested.

    I’m in the shower and have taken the cage off to wash. Warm, soapy water … getting erect … oh, that feels good.

    If I continue stroking I’ll have an orgasm. But, I promised I wouldn’t.

    But she’s not interested in my cock now and wouldn’t care. But, I promised.

    Just this once. She’ll never know.

    But I’ll know.

    I slid the cage back on.

    And locked it.

    My desire, undiminished.
     
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    #2 NsToy, Jan 27, 2021
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    Good job staying true to your love and yourself.

    I guess the choice I have made was to lock and give my wife the keys. From there is a choice to not pull out from the back. No grabbing the vibrator and giving myself a caged orgasm. In the end the choice is easy, stay true to my desire to give my wife control.
     
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    #3 Annemarie, Jan 27, 2021
    After three weeks in 24/7 she said I could be unlocked for one day today. I said no and asked why. she added 3 months for not listening
     
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    #4 slave-in-FLR, Jan 27, 2021
    Awesome KH! Lucky you!
     
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    #5 taped2, Jan 27, 2021

    I hope your wife makes a full recovery and that you won't have to wait too long to be back in your usual routines.
     
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    #6 Isopropylforyou, Jan 28, 2021
    A promise is a promise.

    Sending positive thoughts to you and your Wife.

    Iso.
     
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    #7 MRS.Lilith, Jan 28, 2021
    You think she'll never know, but she will. Because sub drop is very real, and whenever my sub has an orgasm his interest in me and his mood diminishes quite notably. Also his penis is less responsive to my touch after orgasm, so if she is doing this keyholding game with you for a while she'll definitely find out and that would be a breach of trust to deal with.
    So good on you for not doing it.
     
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    #8 MissyB, Jan 28, 2021
    I totally get your challenge. I've been chaste for a long time now, 100+ days, and promised my Domme i'd not cum without her permission. I've been tempted several times but have resisted. It is sort of like, if you can't be true to yourself who can you be true too? Good luck going forward.
     
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    #9 LesterBallard, Jan 28, 2021
    well done
     
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    #10 b_quark, Feb 8, 2021
    Lots of choices over the many years we've been enjoying chastity. Only a handful were bad: once anally masturbating without her permission, a few times cumming in my cage (mostly involuntarily from, for example, getting so aroused watching her enjoy her huge dildo), masturbating while looking at female nudity... Every time she learned of my transgression and/or I told her, and I was punished.
     
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    #11 Sissycaitlin77, Feb 8, 2021
    I have had many choices/ chances to sneak a orgasm like you have in the shower but I gave my keys up for a reason to please my keyholder/Mistress. plus it's a turn on for me seeing she has total control of my sex life and my locked up member plus I feel that helps overall with my sub space and the love to dress etc. Also I'm glad she added the 3 extra months for not obeying trust me obey or it get can get worse.!!!!!
     
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    #12 Chasticot, Feb 9, 2021
    This is also true for me. My wife does not make me wear a cage so regularly this desire to cum right away without saying anything to her is strong. But (almost) evry time I can stop this feeling and be chaste a little longer for her
     
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