Hi, Chastity for men is not that common as it should be here in Sweden. I know of a few but they are all in FLR and BDSM communitys. My question to you is if you have any "men" in your family or friends that are caged like your sisters husband, a colleague or just a friend?
Unfortunately, not all cultures share his worldview. You, as a Swede, have a first-hand experience, I'm sure.
I believe it is "more common" to find people that do this in clusters. For example, if you found one person that did it there would be a higher probability of that person having something close to them that does it as well. How much higher you ask? Uncertain! However, I believe it depends on how rooted in the community they are. I point to ways of life like religion... if a parents believe in religion A, there is a much higher probability the children will be indoctrinated.
I'm guessing this is something that not many people would feel comfortable discussing with others, so it's always going to be difficult to get any assessment of how many/where etc.
You'r quit right, often it's the kh who tell to humiliate you show who's the boss. Or, if you sence he has a cage and dare to ask.
I've only let a few people know. They are either partners or members of kink communities where I feel safe sharing.
Many religious men are chaste. It’s not the same chastity that we may play with, but it’s chastity all the same. Maybe more real and focused than us actually. Religions in many cultures value chaste men. So I wouldnt say chastity is uncommon, but I would say men wearing chastity devices is uncommon.
I agree, but after having experiences at work, (see a previous post!) more people know about chastity and cock cages than you may think!
That would mean that at least the world become a bit more different when Mr. Trump was caged by his Melania...(LoL) Away from that, if more men were caged, the world will be definetly different. I guess this due to two reasons: (1) Caged men will lose their "bonobo" behaviour and put their Loves at first and (2) When more men are caged, it also mean more females will rule. Both things are greatful improvements to help our world to become better. About "sharing with family and friends", the best thing is that here at CM there are many friends to talk with and about it, without judgement, without shame. However, sometimes I can see in my surroundings that the way my chasted life developped could also help others. Still that remains difficult to approach, as I will never involve in someone else his private life. Although male's might talk easily about things, many times it is limited to the "bonobo subjects" and less about a topic about their relationship, intimacy, submission etc. Perhaps as a male might find this a "weakness". On the other hand, my impression is that women are sharing a topic like this easier with their friends. Am I right?
We have a tight circle of people all in a similar lifestyle and end goals are different. We used it as a game and for kink, the logical step after bdsm. It became more of a sexually exciting lifestyle after my wife started doing work (business client) for a woman who was a dominatrix with hubby in chastity. She parted a wealth of knowledge and we have used chastity to heighten our sex lives and increase interests. My wife then introduced her girl friends to the lifestyle by showing me off either at our pool or entertaining. As far as family, no one knows and we keep it a secret.
Very difficult to know. There is no objective data, and I suspect there is deception, both positive and negative. In other words, in the US at least, I think there are men who don't want to admit to chastity, and there are those (including some who post here) who say they are caged when they aren't, really. There is no reliable data on the popularity of male chastity as a sexual kink.
https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/a-mind-blowing-event-at-work.37669/ this is the post I was talking about.