Gotta vent.. Was able to have PIV.. But it was over too quick.. I even did a partial then full but tooo quick. Booo. Good side I was allowed to clean it up. Yea
Since being locked up it becomes more of a problem. Especially when you can’t masturbate anymore. I try to please her completely before she could ask for PIV
i can't imagine trying PIV now, right out of cage. Need time to adjust to perform well enough for that. my little thing now hardly seems to react when unlocked.
Try to remain as calm as possible and focus on your breathing to get your heart rate under control. It's really hard not to get "worked up" about what is going on; sometimes even focusing on how to pleasure her can help push you over the edge. Long term though, you might want to look into Kegel exercises, something you can start doing today is stopping your urine flow while peeing. Contracting these muscles a couple times a day for a week or two can really help you out. You can also get some numbing spray, but it is best to not over think it while "doing the deed". Don't put any added pressure on yourself like counting to a certain number... If you have ever ran long distance this is the mindset to shoot for.
I don't last long at all inside Mrs Chaste, much to her amusement. She always makes sure she has been satisfied first by my tongue and the trusty strap on! Mind you it's a very rare event. Once in January and once in September for 2020! Definitely no more this year! "It's hardly worth it" she says!
Whenever the wife decides to unlock me I'm gonna remind her straight up that the first will be quick. It's the second or maybe third she should focus on. Wishful thinking maybe but not entirely impossible
Find the positions that help you last. Doggie style is a no go for me. Her on top i last the longest. A nice compromise is when we are perpendicular to each other. Don't try and ram rod your entire penis in and out. I've found going in as deep as I can and making short thrust works well almost trying to move her body with yours instead of your penis moving in and out. She says one of the best things about a real penis vs a dildo is how a real penis throbs, she can feel the size difference. So staying deep in her with short thrust allow her to feel the variances of my penis. If all else fails. Stop and go down on her. Then once you've calmed your penis down get back to it.
My sub-hubby always came very quickly even before I started locking him up. His last orgasm was nearly 8 months ago, I hate to even think how quick he might cum now if he were unlocked. But I have no plans to do so in the forseeable future!
A few beers or glasses of wine help. A little trick we just started was with her on top, if I start getting close she slaps me in the face. Never been much into pain before but it works and she really likes it. Nails on the chest do the trick too. A little pain gets you out of the zone.
True dat. When you're 50+ and you've been locked for a long time,(more than a few weeks) things dont typically function like they did when you were 20. I've had a recent experience that speaks to this, and will post a full account here soon.
It really can be frustrating to not be able to control yourself anymore (I used to have 100% stamina control). That said, my wife said she prefers me to be quick now; anything between 0-2 minutes. She believes I need a release time to time but that I do not need to enjoy a long sex session. That said, she has me cumming in the cage mostly now.