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    Why are so many men prepared to accept chastity that they can easily escape from, does real chastity not begin when you really feel you need to get out, is that not when the true devotion to your KH begins, I am sorry but if you just want to pretend at chastity you become a joke and the whole situation becomes a joke.
    You do not need to agree with me, just keep kidding yourself.
     
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    Don't gatekeep chastity.

    Also, under your reasoning, nobody is in chastity because a few minutes with the right power tool could remove literally any device.
     
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    you make a good point, but I would not try to escape from my chastity with a power tool, each to there own.
     
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    I am not in the mature metal you see in my avatar,I am in a lori 5b, if she says no it is no, you either want to be real or pretend.
     
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    Fantasy is better than reality, yes or no, each to there own.
     
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    If you think that chastity cages are just a waste of time, then why do you have a picture showing one as your avatar? Do you have a cage? Does it get used?

    Cages are worn by men for very many reasons, not least of which is just for an occasional bit of fun with their partners, so do you say that this is pretending? And are you saying that you're doing it "properly"? If so, please explain how it is for you?
     
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    You could masturbate in a Lori 5B, so you're pretending.
     
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    Everyone does this for different reasons and technically one could be in chastity without using a device. I personally think the devices have more symbolic meaning to couples then being a deterrent from activity.

    I am sure everything you said is accurate to your relationship, but don't try to pretend every relationship is like your's.

    You do not need to agree with me, just keep kidding yourself.
     
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    #9 piet00, Aug 10, 2020
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    Not sure what your point is.
    I have a contract which says that my KH is the only one allowed to make my orgasms.
    We use the cage as a symbol of this and to increase the "hornyness".
    Real chastity begins for me, when I feel very horny, but I am not taking any actions because this would be against the agreement/FLR.
    As other have mentioned, chastity is/should always be agreed on both sides and therefore it is always possible to quit as soon as one site is not feeling good with it.
    To answer your initial question:
    "Why should men accept chastity..?"
    Because it feels so good! And even more if your KH is actively engaged.
    You will know when you receive a message: "get caged!!" as soon as she founds out that you're not or if she will not make any attempt to unlock you while you're giving her several orgasms.
     
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    Only someone who has experienced both will be able to answer this question.
    For me, after founding a perfect match and living in a FLR, the answer is pretty easy:
    Reality is much (!) "better" and surely much more fun.
     
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    Nobody:
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    So did you create this thread just to flex and then gatekeep anyone not on your level?
     
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    How exactly do you tell it's fantasy? Because it's not done the way you think it should be?
     
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    Totally agree. Not in a device yet but I am not allowed to cum without permission. Just did 27 days and am back on day 3 now.

    Could I cheat, yes but I could not get away with it. My wife would be able to tell by my attitude in about 5 minutes.

    Don't know why I am posting this. This thread is useless.
     
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    Respect. This is the type of flex I can get behind. I'm rarely able to go 27 hours when uncaged.
     
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    you people should have a halo you are perfect angels.
     
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    Yes..... we are !:rolleyes:
     
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    Indeed. My sub tells me so :D
     
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    If you dont need a secure chastity why bother at all, just say you wont wank, you know no one will question you, you honest people, lets get real here, why where chastity devices made to lock, ha ha I wont cheat.?
     
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    But his level isn't higher than anyone else's. He can still easily masturbate without removing the device which means in his opinion that he's not practicing chastity.
     
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    And he wouldn't dare tell a lie, would he?
     
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    I think there is a hymn with those words.
     
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    When you say something incredibly dumb and are called on it, you have two choices:
    1) Keep digging
    2) Admit you were wrong and move on

    Smart people do #2. OP is trying to hit China.
     
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    I assure you that you could put a magic wand on that belt and blow your load. Stop acting like what you are doing is that secure, I could clip that thing off with some bolt cutters in less than 5 minutes.
     
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    listen, I dont want to argue, but if you are not locked away from yourself who do you think is going to tell the truth, I wonder?.
     
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    I dont live in dream land but santa is cumming soon.
     
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