Good morning all. I am new to the site and new to the chastity lifestyle. Just a little background about myself. I am 36 and have always been secretly submissive. I have been with my wife for 14 years, she has known about my submissive side for quite a while; we have experienced with some light bondage where I am bound and gagged. About a year ago I started to get interested in chastity without knowing much about it. It caught my eye in some pornos I had watch, eventually leading to a large amount of research. I finally got the courage to tell my loving wife of my desire to be caged about 3 weeks ago. I wasn’t caged much for the first 10 days. However, for the last week I have been caged everyday only taking it off to shower and when she decides to let me cum (that had happened twice). She has been very receptive to the chastity life thus far, I just hope she keeps this internal motivation for the chastity lifestyle. Today is my first day wearing the device to work. I am a Soldier in the Army so it could possibly get difficult but I absolutely love wearing my cage at work so far. Hope everyone has a great Monday and a good week.
coo i dint know solders had them as well. anyways i hope it ok for you and welcome to here as well cos i seen you have just join.
Jemima, you didn’t know soldiers had what as well? I’m sure it’ll be ok and thank you for the welcome!!
Best of luck. PT could be tough in a cage. If you have to run any courses or longer training in the field, you probable will need to adjust your routine.
Take it slow, a few hours a day, and NO sleeping in it, and NO hard exercise in it. It's kinda like building up a callous, you have to let your skin and your body adjust. Get a few months of daily wear in, then begin trying to sleep caged. By then you will know when and what you can get away with in those sweaty/workout type environments. All of us that post here have varied kinks, but most every one is experienced at chastity, whether it's enforced by a device or simply the honor system. Glad you are finally exploring Submission with your wife and feel free to lean on this community for support and advice. They've taught me so much I couldn't have learned on my own.
Thank you so much for the insight. I had to seek out the advise of people who have more experience than me. I appreciate all of the knowledge that had been bestowed upon me today. Everyone has been great on here Thank You!!
Welcome to the Mansion. Must be difficult to wear a cage full time if you're a serving soldier. Enjoy it while you can
what i mean was that i dint know solders worn chastity cage. is there more ones do it as well please.