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    Is it just me or every male can't post in female keyholders forum? Because i see only FEMALE member's posts.

    If this is true then i think it is an upper class chat where males are not allowed.
     
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    Yes, some places are for Superior Females only. If you've been in chastity long enough, you totally understand, and no longer even question the idea.
     
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    lockedUp24byKH Yes Dear...Right away.

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    Can't say it bothers me at all.
     
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    I got so frustrated in the start when that line was there "you have insufficient privilages to post hear" but then I see there are only FEMALE members chating. And now you have confirmed that males are not allowed there. Well, we cannot argue with them even at home and online is also prohibited.
     
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    That forum really shows us our place.
     
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    I think the idea is to encourage ladies to join and stay on the site, rather than get put off by male pillocks who pester them. On their own forum, men can't pester them.

    At least you can read what they're saying about us and, if you don't like it, start a thread in another forum, as you have in this instance.
     
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    i just wanted to confirm that posting of all males is prohibited or i only see this.

    Rather i say that there should be more such forums for WOMEN only. Where men are restricted in the same way.
     
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    There's a clue in the name "Female keyholders forum".

    Plus there is a description underneath the title, "Verified females only. Males can look but not comment".
     
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    Dude...
     
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    No matter how carefully you set up a forum, or how clearly you think you've written the directions...
     
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    Understood. Thank YOU for clarification.
    i wish there should be more forums for WOMEN only. we men are getting at least a sight, that's our good fortune.
     
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    What?
     
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    There will be people like us right?
     
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    Sadly there isn't much activity on the forum as it is, so splitting the forum into multiple places probably wouldn't work.

    BUT.... Check it out....

    Log out of your account and visit the site as a guest. You can't even SEE that there is a Keyholders forum at all. The very existence of that forum is hidden from you.

    So this raises the possibility that there is a secret 2nd keyholder forum that is hidden from all males so that we don't even know that it exists. And in this forum, they discus their secret methods for driving us crazy as well as their taboo fantasies.

    #dontcrushmydreams
     
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    you may be true that there can be a secret group. After all, they are WOMEN, THEY have more power.
     
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    Guys, seriously. I can't remember how many members CM has, but if it's anything like the forum I run, 90+% of them are men. There isn't enough population to warrant a super secret women's subforum. Of course, more women would probably sign up if wankers didn't keep sending them dick pics and rude /crude messages.

    The one I run has the keyholders forum closed off to men (they can't even view it). Guys get these crazy ideas that the women are coming up with new plans to tease and deny, but the sad truth is that almost all of the discussion among the women looks like:

    "My husband asked me to deny him, I'm denying him, and now he's being a jerk because he hasn't come."

    Or "I agreed to try locking him up, but he just presented me.with a ten page contract with all these dumb rules. I don't want to keep track of that."

    Or "He said that if I locked him up, then he would help with laundry, but all he does is keep trying to get me to unlock him."

    Or "But I liked having sex with him, and every time I want to unlock him, he comes up with some excuse to keep him locked longer."

    Sorry to burst any bubbles, but guys are much, much more concerned about their dicks than wome are.
     
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    This is true, but it is too much to not let men see.
     
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    Okay, I decided to see if my gut estimate was correct. The board I manage elsewhere has just about 2900 members, with 270 being Keyholders - just under 10%. And of those keyholders, less than 10% actively post in the KH only group, and rarely at that. Or they post for a while, mainly about relationship issues as they try to navigate this new change, and when they feel comfortable, they stop posting.

    Now, our board is primarily aimed at vanilla couples, and there is very little cross-over with sissy, cuckolding, or BDSM, so that could be a factor. But still, guys, let the owmen have a place to discuss things without men jumping in to "help," because it rarely ends up well.
     
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    No.

    We decided that it allowed couples to join the board, and allowed women to get some support for the inevitable issues that cropped up.
     
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    Meaning a man can become part of the forum with his partner?
     
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    Tom Tom Tom Tom... Tom.

    I specifically asked not to crush my dreams.
     
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    What? No!

    We run a board that is pretty vanilla. Sometimes couples join. She can join the KH forum, and he can not.

    But again, if you or anybody thinks something either nefarious or sexy is going on in the KH group, then you're wrong. It's mainly support for women new to any of this.
     
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    Sorry, just stop reading my posts in this thread. :cool:
     
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    Great
     
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    As one of the 'privileged' ones, I find the KH-only area very helpful. It lets women talk amongst each other openly and without having to cater to the subs' oh so important needs there and then.

    Here's a little secret for the subs: sometimes it's ok not to join in the keyholders' conversation... Not everything is about YOU.
     
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