So we had a bit of the house to ourselves today - not common anymore in these "uncertain times". My wife laid me down on the bed and told me to expose my backside to her. No surprise as to what came next, a caning was on the way. It was no "funishment", and I still have the welts to prove it 5 hours later! Maybe blood was drawn, hard to tell now after my shower, but it was certainly borderline. After she finished with that, I successfully completed the next task - and I'll let others figure out what that was (but there was no cage removal). It didn't dawn on me to ask the following question until after I had prepared dinner (this is what I mean about the sweet spot - unquestioning obedience). I mean, I completed all my regular assigned tasks and then some beyond those today. My submissive behavior was "good", so I asked "Why did you cane me today?". "Oh that was just for fun!", she replied. By the way, she doesn't have ANY sadistic tendencies...at least thats what she tells me.
It does sound like she is 'warming' up to being in total control. Keep up the good work, as no telling what she'd do if you become lazy or sloppy. Good luck and enjoy.
During our BDSM period, my wife was taught by a Pro Domme never to raise welts or break the skin and what tools to use. She was also briefed on how to inflict welts and cause deep wounds, but to avoid at all costs. The reason is simple, once the skin is broken, it takes weeks to heal and all punishment must stop. However, if you use floggers or a thick belt with just the right swings and several in immediate succession as well as move around the body, you can inflict pain and only redness. This allows for repeated nightly sessions and behavior modification quicker.
just what I was thinking! Although I never experienced this as my madam has always been Dom, and a real sadist!
There probably wont be any more major ones (brands). She's done both cheeks already and is happy with the results. The only good "real estate" left is above the locked property. We had been thinking of a tattoo there, but then all this covid nonsense came up and that's not really discussed anymore. She does branding on me with a cautery pen sometimes, but those leave only very faint permanent marks despite being quite painful. She says the hardcore brands are sort of stressful for her...trying to get everything right with the one permanent shot at it. I laugh inside a bit on that...imagine being tied face down and then hearing the blowtorch getting turned off and knowing that means the branding iron is red hot. I find that kind of stressful! Anyhoo - I'm up for another one. Maybe she will read this and get inspired!