My journey to FLR marriage with husband locked in chastity

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    I do.
     
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    I had mine snipped many years ago, local anesthetic and scissors...

    I bite my tongue loads of times after as I was not use to it being so loose in my mouth!!
     
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    Surely that is the point.

    Newbie wannabe maids and slaves get fixated on physical punishments, humiliations, etc. that I may impose. Yes, I can enjoy beating a maid or slave or humiliating him or her just because for fun, and because I can. I can and often do those things as discipline or punishment as part of training.

    But the aim is to have the service from him or her in a way that is minimum work, maximum benefit to me, and provided by them in a way they love to serve for a week or two, so they come back again the next year.
     
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    MeanBitch if you are in his head as much as you claim to be then why does he have to wear a belt? Why can't he just follow your commands?
     
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    MeanBitch, thank you for sharing. All the best.
     
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    This thread is the best read on the forums IMO - thank you very much for sharing.
     
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    Because he is weak and he has no will power. He genuinely wants to please but I need to control him harshly because of his lack of self discipline.
     
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    Thanks.
     
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    You're welcome, I appreciate your message.
     
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    Thank you for sharing and giving us an honest account of your lifestyle :) this is really an excellent blog.
     
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    Hi Mean Bitch. I love the blog and I have been following you for ages.
    So does your partner get anything extra for Valentine's Day. Does he buy you anything such as lingerie? That would be difficult to buy if you were going to only show one of your bulls. Another question is do you give oral sex to your bulls? And do you ever tell your husband about what you have been up to specifically on a date?
     
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    I agree to keep us posted what's going on if having the time
     
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    Lack of self discipline: maybe; or he's being defiant
     
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    This is an amazing blog thanks for taking so much time to share it. I too am an assertive and naturally dominant women and I would love to have your lifestyle. My partner is such an alpha male that I'm struggling to see how I can instigate an FLR relationship. He already cooks and cleans the house whilst I'm at work so I can't really complain but I also know he's wanking off whilst I'm not there and generally doing as he pleases. There is something just so sexy about having a man at your beck and call like that. You are an inspiration!
     
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    Ms @Ellie40, if i may comment, it sounds like "wanking off whilst I'm not there and generally doing as he pleases" are solid grounds for Your complaints. I hope You find a way to move this into more of a FLR that will meet both of Y/your needs and Your total satisfaction.

    asa
     
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    Think you are going in the right direction. Just think you need to take charge of the wanking maybe check his internet history, maybe put him in chastity or punish him for wanking. Just tell him you feel he is cheating on you wanking ;)
     
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    Amazing blog! Thank you so much for sharing!
     
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    We actually went out for a nice dinner on Valentine's Day. He can't buy me anything because he has no money of his own. I give him money for household expenses and he has to account for every penny.

    I don't give oral to my lovers, its something I never liked and now I don't have to do it so I'm done with that. No, after cuckolding my husband I don't tell him, it would be painful for him and that's not my intention. In truth its not that often that I have sex with other men these days. When I am traveling for work it sometimes happens but I don't see locals much any more like I used to. Sexually, I have become addicted to pegging my husband, its something I have done for some time but I have become much more creative and intense recently, so thats my main sexual outlet, together with receiving oral from his talented tongue.
     
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    When we started our FLR journey there were moments of defiance but I put a stop to that immediately. He's not defiant at all any more, he's just fundamentally lazy.
     
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    You're welcome!
     
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    MeanBitch, your story is getting better and better. Would you mind sharing more details about "addiction to pegging your husband"? I would love to hear my details. How has it evolved? What do you find addicting about it? How does he feel with it now, knowing he didn't particularly like it in the past? Any interesting techniques? You say more creative and intense? Wow, I am curious. Thank you for sharing.
     
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    How can you be sure?
     
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    Are you a verified female? Or fantasy dude?
     
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    This is from the "Sit to Pee" thread and is IMO overlooked. "The only thing that truly makes me feel different is when I pee while locked in my full belt. It’s hard to explain, but having to sit, not being able to see or feel my penis or balls, and then when I pee I feel it trickle out the back and drip off my butthole. It’s quite a feeling!"
     
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    Trying to find a woman like MeanBitch where are they. Cant seem to find any in my area.
     
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