What is your favorite part of male Chastity?

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    I'm curious what you enjoy most about being locked? Outside of the fact you have surrendered your orgasms... I enjoy waking up on Saturday mornings with the realization I will be locked all weekend, and that I'm powerless to change it... the feeling of the cage as I slip on sweat pants and grab coffee is comforting. it's really fun to soak in the feeling of being locked and all the emotion that goes with it
     
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    My feelings are similar. It is a both a comforting feeling knowing your secure, as the metal keeps you in place. But it is also a little unnerving as you realize the control over perhaps one of the central parts of being male is no longer yours . Overall I like how it makes me feel in a way less masculine and more feminine. I know that's not a widely held feeling, but that is how it is for me.
     
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    Both of the above posts mirror my feelings etc-i like the physical feeling of not feeling depleted and always 'good to go' or feeling calm and centered-strictly speaking that would be abstaining from masturbation that produces that but caged, flr and abstention are a great combo
     
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    From a selfish point of view, chastity, being locked and flr dynamics mean i get to use my tongue a hell of a lot more-that is my favourite part of chastity!
     
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    The feeling of closeness I have with my keyholder is the best part.
     
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    Is your keyholder local or remote?
     
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    Local (wife). She is still not sure what to make of it, so she doesn't really tease much, but the feeling is still strong. I imagine that if she eventually fully embraces the role that the feelings will all be exponentially stronger.
     
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    I am just more happy than I was and some of what the other folks have sayed on here as well.
     
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    Thanks for sharing and the honesty. I agree with you. You are a lucky man to have her engaged in the kh role
     
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    I think chastity truly brings my wife and I closer together. Romantically, because all of my efforts are devoted to pleasing her and showing my love for her (instead of selfishly wanking all of the time as I otherwise would be). Sexually, because it keeps me in a constant state of arousal, and that is all directed toward her, and yet I am powerless to impose anything on her sexually or to make unwanted advances. But also it is becoming clear that keeping me in chastity makes her aroused and causes her to want sex more often, even if the sex is not necessarily the same as for most couples. I have no PIV sex at all, ever. I can only please her with my tongue and fingers and her dildos.
     
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    Powerlessness
     
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    When the wife does a striptease and grinds on it and then makes me eat her out love the feeling of pre-cum leaking
     
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    The level of closeness and intimacy it has brought to my marriage. Prior to chastity my most common sexual release was masturbating to porn. This was a double negative resentment pill I was swallowing each time. I resented my wife for not wanting sex enough. Then as I watched porn I became resentful she wasn't as adventurous as the women I was watching. Prior to discovering chastity I was convinced the biggest flaw in my marriage was the fact that we didn't have sex enough. It's ironic that the cure was less orgasms for me. It has actually increased her sex drive and re-defined what gratification means to me.
     
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    The confidence she is developing by holding my key and being in charge. Of everything. She has gone from not interested in sex, to driving an intense, creative, and somewhat kinky erotic lifestyle. I will trade every future orgasm to witness her transformation.

    Additionally, it has exposed my service submissiveness. It has always been present, just not evident. It is a bit like coming out of the closet.
     
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    The energy, mental sharpness and somehow feeling more in control by giving up control. I'd like to achieve long- term or permanent chastity, but need help. My ex gf was my keyholder. We split and I haven't made it past 8 days alone.
     
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    My favorite part? Getting unlocked! The part that is the most beneficial? Keeping me grounded and a better partner.
     
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    As usual, @Xileh and @PouchPantyLover have nailed it, they speak for me as well.

    I totally agree. My highest goal in life now is to be permitted to worship her divine vagina and sacred clitoris with my tongue and lips. It is far more fulfilling for me than PIV.
     
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    I think I most enjoy the change in attitude from myself. I do become a nicer person 100% when I am locked up, and am more attentive to my partner and far less self centered as I have think about the fact I have no access to my genitals!
    it's not just so I can't masturbate, though it stops a lot of that happening when I am locked up, which does in turn make my sex drive more for the fun of us both than myself.
     
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    Mash2214 Locked today, tomorrow, forever

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    As you can tell from the responses the reasons for Chastity are not the same for everyone. The only really common part is a lot of us have found that wearing a Chastity adevice makes our life better.
    My favourite part is it give my life purpose. It makes me feel like my Wife caress about me to make me a better person, that life is so much more than masarbating or having an orgasm. That to give pleasure to someone else and to know that they genuinely appreciate it, this gives me more pleasure than taking matters into my own hands could ever do.

    Nice Post and interesting Responses
     
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    Thanks for taking time to read and respond. I've enjoyed reading them as well!
     
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    There are a myriad of sites with people that will help you reach your goals. Including miss Lucy if you are willing to let her. She has a very generous offer. Good luck to you
     
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    There no since in me writing the same thing as MASH2214 . I totally agree with his post .
     
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    The control and the power that she holds over me in every way!
     
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    My husband says it gives him more intense feelings than an orgasm can ever give him due to nerve damage so he really loves edging and denial.
    I love the chastity because he becomes a more attentive and cuddly lover.
     
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    For me it makes me feel so much closer to my wife (KH) knowing that she has the keys and controls all about it.
    Maybe she will realise the control over me she has now rather than me wanking to porn day and night at every opportunity, my wanking was effecting my ability to cum in my wife was when I thought I had to do something and being locked and the tightness feels very good specially when aroused.
     
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