I belong to OpheliaRose

Twenty six days after my wife Ophelia Rose ordered her Evotion Wearables Bijou cage for me - it arrived in a plain white box at the post office one evening after I got off work.

Shortly after receiving the package I made my first mistake*. Recognizing the name of the sender my heart racing an ill conceived plan was made. I opened her box* I would surprise her with the keys, I thought. So like a dart - I was off. I gathered all the packages, went to the market & got the groceries for dinner before racing home.

Goods delivered - Lady Rose occupied with her best friend I ran to shower & wash from the day. Further examination of her cage revealed just how much longer the included frenum barbell was than my own.

My lady wife was still occupied with her friend and I told her not to rush. Being the over eager and an unthoughtful fool on this occasion - I made my second mistake and decided to try her device on.

The base ring for the bijou felt nice wrapped snuggly around the shaft. The barbell was easy to sterilize and put in. The cap slipped right on trapping the piercing in place.

It was then that I made my third mistake. I locked my wife's cage on. Dancing around quickly, I checked the comfort level which was surprisingly comfy. (Possible cage revision to come but we have talk to EW. Will update.)

Stuffing the cage into the boy shorts from Torrid my wife had just picked out for me earlier - I put my pants back on and went to her. She was busy & I received a message from a friend. Grabbing my keys before leaving she made a comment on me bulging in my pants leg & to adjust myself.

I felt my face heat up as I strained inside the cage. The feeling firm like being held in her hand when we watch a movie & she just wants to feel me. Adjusting after love you's & kisses I left the house in my cage. The drive was okay. No need to adjust - but a tingling sensation on the underside with the piercing. No way to get to it with the keys at home. I finished my friends errand and returned home.

Now instead of being smart and removing my wife's cage - I left it on to surprise her with the idiotic things I had done. She wasn't pleased.

When she entered the bedroom and I tried to oh so cutely hand her - her keys and pulled the plaid boy short panties down. Her face fell. I believe the first thing she said was that she wanted to put it on me. My heart sank. She began to show me each of the mistakes I'd made.

Thinking it would help - I offered that we take it off & yeah... No. She smiled and reminded me that she said once it came & I was locked it was until the holidays. I squirmed in protest and again not thinking protested because she had also said she was going to edge her toy & make me her "mumbling puddle of goo". This... Didn't help as she was already in the mood to have sex earlier and had said she wanted to.

So I spoiled what could have been a wonderful moment for the two of us to share together. Unwittingly denied her what she wanted for the night. And well yeah. Vadderung buggered this one up real well.

Waking up from straining erections in the middle of the night + the growing burning did not help. The following day brought one unexpected spanking with a bamboo paddle. I loath it. She had me crying in pain and making me laugh because she's so funny. Her commentary is so natural when she's having fun and she didn't believe I was crying.

Bottom freshly reddened tears streaming down my face - my sweet, merciful, loving wife let me cuddle her. I expressed the burning sensation from the steel barbell. She removed the cage and had be put my titanium barbell back in. A new titanium barbell has been ordered and is in the mail as of the writing of this post.

When me being uncaged came up my wife assured me not to worry. I was either going to be in the cage or out of the cage. When happens it's up to her. I dont need to worry about that. I'm hers.

I dont know what is to come in the future. I will trust in my Lady Ophelia Rose to do what she feels is best & offer whatever I can when she asks for input. I wear her wedding ring on my finger, a collar around my neck from eternity collars, and whenever she so desires - her cage between my legs.

Every day I look for new ways to commit myself to her - ways to make her smile & laugh. May this 1st post stand as a vow & reminder that I will always be thoughtful of her. I'm quite fortunate that she's chosen me to be her man.

More to come.
-Vadderung

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I know all situations are different. I work from home & am rarely away from my wife. What do you think a fitting punishment for the over eagerness & being thoughtless?

 

Definitely. The morning after I woke feeling... Wow I can't explain it. It isn't like sub space. I just felt... Right. That evening (last night) I received another. I confirmed that out of all the instruments she has at her disposal for spankings - this is my least favorite - i hate it - it hurts like hell - & if it works for her & she likes it to stick with it.

I dont know if it'll become a regular thing. Tonight will be evening number three. We shall see.

I am quite lucky - I know after everything that we have been through together - No matter where we go forward - Were gonna do it together & we will be stronger for trying & learning together.

-V

 

For the third night in a row I have felt the bite of my wife's paddle. She delights when she can make me squirm, cry & beg for her.* She gave me the most delicious attention whilst she spanked me. Her fingers danced along my balls and taint, running along my inner thighs. It didn't take her long to turn me into a mumbling puddle of goo.

She told me to hop up off the bed and go put in my plug & gave me permission to put on my oxballs silicone ball stretcher. Plugged and balls held firmly for her easy access I returned to the bed.

Spread before her on the bed she had me stroke myself to the edge while she played with my testicles with coconut oil slick fingers. Playfully talking dirty to me as I rode her toy for her and drove it against my prostate. When I let her know I was again close to the edge & slowed my pace, she questioned why I hadn't asked or begged to cum. Explaining that I wouldn't ask her may because she controls them & will decide when they happen wasn't the right answer either. She likes making me beg and squirm.

She ended the night making me cum and very, very messy for her. >~<

So day by day I'll take my spankings as I get them while loving & thanking my wife for all the attention she gives me. I'm gonna beg and mean it - because let's face it. I wanna cum. But I'm not gonna pout when she says no - to keep holding it for her. We're slowly watching the progress of the new titanium barbell on it's way for her bijou cage. So that's a that's gonna happen in a few days.

The cage with the key in its lock just sitting innocently on top of her bedside table. . .

-V

 

So this morning - I woke after a pleasant dream. Rolling over to snuggle I pressed against my wife's glorious body. I gently throbbed against her just enjoying the feeling of her flesh against mine. Loosly curling my arm around her I held into her thigh as I throbbed against her. She reached back squeezing me. I stiffened to her touch & throbbed in her hand in excitement. She told me she wanted to feel me inside of her. Not only is morning sex just an amazing way to wake up. Just yeah - When she told me to cum while pressed against her spot... I erupted. We made a mess. Clean up etc. I can not stress to her enough that this isn't a way to stop having sex with her - it'll just make all the sex on her terms.

Now as I am finishing getting dressed I get a notification - The order for all the new hardware arrived. We ordered a new internally threaded titanium barbell for my frenum piercing bijou cage. My lady wife also had me order her some new ear rings & septum rings. Well... The ear rings were the perfect size! For her nose ring.... The nose ring was the perfect size for our daughter. So... I messed up a measurement somewhere. Yeah. Well the barbell for her cage? Perfect fit. She had me switch it out immediately. Telling me that we were not putting the cage on now. To my embarrassment she was on the phone with her best friend mentioned in my earlier post. So after removing the barbell from the packaging & some sterilization it was in. No trouble or irritation from the new barbell at all.

The day out...
Somehow, I've managed to get to the count of four. I was... Anxious when I hit two. Then from axious to kinda astounded and a good scared? When she said three. When she said four. I... I dunno what is going to happen next. She has definitely been embracing & exploring her power more lately. I've gotten spankings more days of the week than I haven't now - without being counted at. So now we're laying on the couch after I made her dinner. She is just so awesome & gives the best pets. Letting me lay my big head in her lap. Soon we will retire to her room & we'll see what she wants to happen next.

-Vadderung

 

So my Lady Wife & I have been having an interesting journey. On October 25th 2019 I was officially locked into my Evotion Wearables Bijou cage. At first I made it four days straight. Until My piercing became tinder and I felt a sharp pinching sensation. I almost died after I woke from pain in the middle of the night. I had to wake my wife up in the middle of the night. She was very irritated that I had woken her - not that I needed unlocked. Which was something we had to talk about later - I felt like I had disappointed her & that was why she was mad. Nope she just doesn't like being startled awake at three in the morning. Who knew, right? She reinforced that I wasn't to force myself to wear it - or to hurt her penis. So she had me take a break from the cage and any touching several days before locking me back up.

Recently we've had a few discussions about my past secretive masturbation habits. Perhaps a week or so ago, she told me that she didn't care if I masturbated once a day & said it was up to me if I came or not. This was before a discussion this morning (12/1/19) about the true frequency of my masturbation before. So I dunno if it stands or not. She pointed out that I had been lying to her - by sneaking off in secret to masturbate without her. That I had not been open and honest about all of my desires, wants, needs - fantasies about her. It was bad... I was bad. Now when I want any type of attention I will bring it to her no matter how embarrassed I feel saying it out loud or unsure if I should or anything. I have to remember - She likes talking people into things they're embarrassed about. So this'll be a good thing. (Like ater this post I have to post some pictures & a video... She took them while playing with her toy & asked me to post them after she originally sent them.) Last night she had fun playing with me with a bit of mind fuckery. I've told her I wouldn't ask to be unlocked & she forced me to ask anyway last night before bed - because she wouldn't let me sleep with her cage on & didn't accept any other question besides the one she wanted. She had me squirming and giggling for her like a nervous *insert cute thing*.

Now each morning I put on my bijou cage and present myself next to her to be locked up - or if she's still in bed I self lock and sit the keys next to her glasses. She's taken much amusement to jingling her keys to catch my attention. These past few days she's been tying to train me to get hard like pavlov's dogs, when I hear the tinkling. She says I am learning.

I've tried to be open and honest in my communication with her. It's so difficult sometimes. Like when telling her how bad it really was... I feel so disgusting and just blah. I get embarrassed and feel ashamed and the look on her face just reinforces what I end up saying in my head to beat myself up. It just causes a spiral. I want so badly to stop - to make her feel as special as she really is to me. To share everything with her.

I've been looking for little things that I have been able to do just to use some of the energy and rawrness I have; since I haven't been masturbating regularly lately. I've been able to help her make some big strides for her actual business. In terms of product and distribution. She's really appreciated it, a lot changed over night in terms of what she's able to offer now. I've also been doing more of my chores without telling her what I've done. I don't want her to feel like I just do them for rewards or to be let out. She is so incredibly worth the time & effort that I need to put in to change my habits. She said that she really appreciates me taking the initiative to put her cage on in the mornings without being told to. I've tried to do well and do it before touching her toy & forgoing the permission she gave me to spill.. Because - well yeah.

We'd discussed getting a slightly snugger cage - with the bit of room I have in this one I could achieve orgasm with enough effort. I really - really don't want it to be even possible. We've discussed me swapping my frenum piercing for a prince albert. It won't be happening & that's fine. I've been looking at Lori devices for something more secure than this; which is the only reason I had asked her thoughts on the subject. I had a talk with the creator for the Lori tubes on her advice for a cage. She'd recommended the switch saying with the frenum I may be able to achieve a very painful ruined orgasm - the thought of not even getting that spurred me on. Since our discussion I am not worried. I've stopped perusing it because I am terrified I will upset my Lady Wife by doing so. I really wish I didn't have the drive I do sometimes. I feel so at odds sometimes. I wish I could change it too sometimes. I am trying to change the things that she doesn't like. She's willing to do so very much for me... I will do anything for her.

I haven't brought up any of our original talks or plans or ideas. Nothing. I just want her to have fun now. Hopefully it'll be a fun journey.

I've been trying. I'll keep trying.

-Vadderung


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I'll post a link to the video she took here as well so you don't have to hunt it down. Gawd... I can't believe this. Here. It's done >_<
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5de405a02a68c

 

So today I took some paid time off work to spend the day with my Lady Wife. It started what'll be a nice long weekend [I work from home 11-8 Sun-Thur]. We enjoyed some pleasant conversation down the road instead of listening to any audio books. Today I took her into the city to one of her favorite crafts stores. She needed to stock up on some things. We enjoyed some casual shopping after.

Once the hunger demons started to start poking around I escorted her across town to get some of her favorite sushi & hibachi. After dinner we got a little bit of walking done around Richmond. Alas the weather was far too cold for too much walking around the town this evening - thus the lure of the warm car prevailed.

Between stores I admired her again playing with the loooooong silver chain she wanted me to get her for my keys. Originally she'd mentioned wearing them tucked inside her bra. She really enjoys the tinkling noise the small keys make. Just like the small bell on cat collars. She still enjoys playing with and jingling them. Even in public it would seem.

So as I admire her playing with her by far longest necklace that just holds these two little keys - I asked "What are you gonna do when someone asks what those are for?" Without hesitation or bravado she said "They're for my husbands cock cage" She laughed and said perhaps it would teach them not to be so nosy or be an excellent conversation started.

To draw the evening to a sweet conclusion I took her once again back across RIchmond in search of the perfect desert. Our journey had us landing at one of our favorite restaurants where we have never made it to desert before. It's normally just a dinner spot for us. They proved to have a very satisfying selection to choose from.

After nice drive home out of the city I carried all of the bags in like I've done for every shopping trip for years. She's always so sweet and offers to help and lets me fuss and dote & take all the bags myself. Tonight she hadn't offered and allowed me to carry all the bags in the house for her without comment. I unloaded her craft goods and set out to working on some that needed finished before this Saturday [she has a big event coming up on the 7th so please send good vibes and wishes - I know she can do it!]. When I peaked into the room to see if I could get her anything - she had curled up and fallen asleep - without having called me to her side with her tinkling like a bell - all the while I remain locked in her keep again for the first time in several weeks since first locked me in her keep.

I dare not touch her keys to unlock myself - as I've sworn to her that I'll never ask for them or ask to be unlocked (that horrible pain aside. I'd get in trouble if I didn't tell her that ><) Well... Besides that one time she twisted my arm and forced me into asking her for her amusement. Which caused all sorts of butterflies and goosebumps and just @_@ wiggles. I dunno how else to explain it.

Well it's 3:16am EST as I finish writing this up from the days events. I'm so.... Words fail right now. Just so. So. Lucky. She's amazing.

The journey continues.

-V

 

Welp here we are. Still on this journey with my amazing wife. So the morning after I slept with my cage on she told me she had not expected me to sleep in the cage. Since then I've had one day out of the cage. She was worried over some mild sensitivity and a spot on the under side of the head that felt rougher that morning. I managed not to masturbate. Yay for willpower.

This evening we had a disagreement over something small. Not preparing inside but instead I started to swipe my card at pump. Well they authorize your card so knowing I only needed 20 - long story short I should have gone in the store. also can't shut down when the conversation turns south. I made a vow to be open & honest about everything with her & so I will.

Upon the return home from the gym & getting gas - tried to kiss her good night. Rebuffed she pulled away from me and stopped me midmotion. Pointing to her nightstand she said her keys were right there & that I could take off the cage myself.

I promised I wouldn't take it off or ask though. That it's all up to her. So it looks like we are sleeping in our bijou again.

-V