Sweet Spot: PA size for safe and comfortable security

Thanks for your input, I’ve been trying to get my wife to suggest a PA, by having her look at some articles about chastity, she wants me locked & secure so I would like her to want such. I’m kinda scared of getting one, but think it may be the best thing for security and would do it if she brings it up. I was thinking 6ga was an ideal size, but may have to be ready to stretch up to 4ga.

 

Well I’ll let you know next week! I have a 4 gauge and just ordered my Contender today!!! I’m so excited to get it. However if peeing is better with 2 gauge, I may go up!!

 

I have had a PA for over 25 years and find 4ga to be my sweet spot. It looks great and has some weight but not too heavy.

 

Just stretched to 4ga. To me it looks just right.
Haven't used urinals yet but will definitely try soon.
Looking at orion now for travel and than some metal ones for security...

 

yea, I have had a PA for almost 10 years now. Started with a 10 and immediate stretch to an 8. Over the course stretched all the way up to a 2g, but one day/night while at work the screwball on my ring unscrewed itself off without me knowing it and that hole shrunk all the way back to the size 8. It was super painful to try and stretch back, so left it at an 8 for a few years. Then last year ... started to stretch again, got back to a 4, and same damn thing happened, and so here I sit with an 8 .. and will prolly just keep it here for now.

On topic .. peeing has been a hassle with every size, and often makes me think about just closing it all up and going to a frennum. .... but then I gather my senses .. and just keep on keeping on. Would be great if a pa ring with some sort of stopper could be rolled up into/onto that hole to stop the leaking and dribbling. For some reason the ball, just never quite works when trying that for me.

 

I was pierced November 1st, 2017 with a 10g needle and stretched to 8g immediately by the piercer. I was wearing a Steelworxx Steelheart with the loop PA fixation by early December. This sort of fixation allows a lot of movement and I think you can get away with a lot smaller of a piercing. But in May of this year I stretched up to 6g so that I could wear devices that have a more fixed positioning. I’ve got an Evotion Cage 8 that I just got recently, it’s taking some getting used to to wear it, but I have managed to wear it for a full week.

I can’t really say what the ideal size is because I don’t really have enough experience. But I do think designs like what I use with the Steelheart is a good option for people to start with as before they move up in sizes to try other devices. It also means switching piercing sizes doesn’t require any change to the device, you can just buy a piece of jewelry.

I’ve heard 4 or 6g as the sweet spot from some people though. Unless I have problems I doubt I will go larger than 6g. The piercing is purely practical I don’t really care about going with bigger jewelry.

 

I've been at a 4ga for a long time. I didn't do anything special to stretch it, just wearing jewelry. I wear a titanium full circle ring. It uses a screw to keep it together.

https://www.thechaingang.com/continuous-or-seamless-rings.html

 

Madam loves the idea of me having a PA but I was not sure, and as I didn’t need one for chastity it wasn’t something we like in to a lot. Can I ask how many of you with PAs are uncircumcised?

 

The advantage of that sort if retainer is that there's no weight or pressure on the piercing unless you try to pull out. Same with my Chinese 'Y' full belt with the removable glans cover and PA attachment point.

 

Not sure how a PA makes chastity more secure if the retention ball falls off or can be removed by the chaste male.

 

Because you don't use something that can just be unscrewed. There is a bar through the piercing that is secured by a locking mechanism of some sort.

 

I agree about 4 being the best. I went up to a 0 but it would make me sore after a couple days.

 

Did you let it heal after your stretched to 0 ga?

 

I could get the 0 in easily, it was just to heavy.

 

Wow that is devotion

 

I accidentally went up to a 0g wearing stainless steel. Now it's titanium or my evotion cage. Stainless is just too damn heavy at bigger gauges.

 

The sweet spot for chastity security with a PA is probably 4 ga (5mm).

Mine is stretched to 2 ga, but my device uses a 4 ga locking post. Even after months in the device, 2 gauge jewelry goes right in.

 

I have 6ga and am planning on sizing up to 4ga. It seems there are more options with this size. I feel 6 is slightly too small and likely 2 is too big. The larger gauges seem to be less likely to seal up. My 8 would definitely need restretching after a hiatus whereas the 6 stays open. Looking forward to my 4!

 

For me, anything less than 4g caused pulling pain. For all that have said 4g is the minimum to to shoot for, I agree.

***First and foremost follow your piercer's advice as to when to start stretching and how. They will know best.

I am a 2g and recommend that even more. From what I have heard 0g will expand the urethra and squeeze you from the inside. I have not experienced this as I have never gone to 0g.
Note that stretching from 6g to 4g is not a big deal. Draw a hot bath, dump in some epsom salts and wait 10 minutes. Then get an acrylic 2g curved taper, put some oil based lube on it and push it through the piercing and out the urethra and push a bit, wiggle a bit, wait a bit, repeat. Don't do anything that you feel is ripping you. It isn't a comfortable experience, but not really painful. It's an odd feeling. Don't rush it. I got my 4g jewelry in after about 20 mins.

But the jump from 4g to 2g. You'll feel that one. It's not fun and a lot of work. 2g to 4g is just so much more when compared to 6g to 4g. That stretching took the above method 3 days continuous effort.

Best of luck.

 

I was just about to ask how you stretched. Thank you.
Did most of you go for a ball trap/pa device at first before going to a pure tube design? Trying to avoid all the weight on the piercing etc?

 

My device utilizes a ball trap with a PA locking mechanism on the attached tube. This means no erections, and no escape.