A vast majority of people keep talking about a male's need for sex. But the truth is we don't need sex. We don't really need it like we need oxygen, water and food. Not getting laid won't kill you. Worst case scenario, it'll make you a little sad. Best case scenario, it'll teach you the sense of priorities and make you a better minion for your Princess. What do you think?
Nature provides a strong incentive for the male to have sex. It isn't a requirement for continued life but imagine always being hungry and never dying or getting weak from hunger. Just always hungry. Hun-gry. So hungry. Hungry. Wow, look at that pizza... that sure looks good. Man, that steak looks awesome! Are you going to eat all of that apple? It is a biological imperative and yes, you can do without it but it doesn't mean you aren't reminded of it on a regular basis. After 10 days of being caged and denied, I see every woman in leggings (I don't miss a one) and my wife has learned to exploit me by wearing them herself. One of the many reasons I love her.
"Needs? We don't need no stinking needs." Hey Doug, leggings are a nice look. There just needs to be a size limit on the wearer, that's all. Its the manufacturers. If they only make them up to a certain size, then it would take care of itself. Although, seeing a max stretch can help you go on for a longer period of time.
I'm not sure if I ever "needed" sex. I always wanted it. Now caged, I still want it, but rarely get it. It's a strange feeling now, knowing I really want sex and not being able to have it, unless my Wife(KH) wants me to have it.
Interesting. I don't have much to add to this discussion but my own perspective. My wife withdrew intimacy after becoming pregnant with our first child. So, since 2007 we have had sex 23 times. No chastity was involved, nothing was substituted. Do I *need* sex to survive? No. But it is surprising how much intimacy is lost and thus how much sex becomes feeling like a need. It was why I investigated chastity. Barring huge mistakes, chastity with a Holder offered far more intimacy than my marriage. But, of course, I make mistakes. Hmm.
This. Intimacy is an important part of a person's mental health and men are wired to associate sex with intimacy. (Healthy) Chastity is denying a man access to his penis or to control sex, not to completely deny him anything sexual.
Weirdly (and paradoxically) I feel that chastity (and even more with the appropriate device) is sex - the best I've ever had, tbh. Or the best I had not I should say. As for intimacy, there are a million ways. Sex is far from being the only one. Having said that, I totally get your message too.
With the curve this topic has taken, just thought I would chime in again. This is what I have been told about the needs and mentality off men and women. Women are willing to give sex in order to get loved, men give love in order to get sex. I am not saying that is the case with everyone. I love my wife with all my heart and soul, though I am permanently locked and have no intention to ever be released. But in general terms, that's why men and women complement each other well. French Sub, if I understand you, you are saying that the wearing and physical feeling of the device itself is giving you what you need to feel satisfied? That is what has happened to me. So if that's what you meant, I get it.