How long have you been married or together?

Dated 6 months, married 39 years, We are extremely happy after my surrender and submission in March of 2016, she decided it would be a good idea to lock me 3 months ago (big surprise as she had said repeatedly she would "never do that". I never asked to be locked, she had seen and read about male chastity on several web sites, blogs, etc. ). There is no end in sight for any long term absence of the HTv3 attached to me.

 

Life can be so hard for you guys... pun intended... we met online on a 'regular vanilla' dating site and something clicked. I was in an open relationship that wasn't so open in regards to whom I was seeing (jealousy knows no bounds) and this was on it's way out so, why not?
Life is complicated, right? But 5 years later we are growing stronger every day and he is the best man I have ever met.
We often discuss what might have been like if we had met when we were younger and we always come to the same decision, we needed to have got here first to be the people we are now.
I am the F in a FLR and life is still complicated but we are loving our journey.

Domina and familius

 

Same here, married over 30 years, surrender and submission to her in our FLR came first. The chastity came later to deepen and help effectuate that FLR.

 

Together for 12 years, married for almost ten. Chastity play for the last two.

 

Will bdo three years together in april. I think I’m introduced chastity about 1.5 years ago with a Holytrainer V2. We never really did much, only just the start of this year are we really giving chastity a proper go with a nice metal cage. Wish me luck for 2019!

 

Almost 12 years together, married for 7. We've played with chastity on and off for probably 4 years, pretty much made it a full time thing in January 2018. I don't think either of us could imagine going back.

 

We have been together eighteen years from the start it has been an FLR also Chastity from the start my first cage was the CB2000.

 

50 years

 

Dated for four. Married for eight years.

 

15 years. Coming up on two years of having agreed on chastity and starting an FLR..

 

49 years; chaste 30; caged 15; 24/7/365 6 years

 

Married for 32 years. Been into b&d on and off for the last 5 years, Chastity for the last 2+ with wife taking more active role. Now she directs most of the activities, but uses me to do the research on devices and trends.

 

Together 27 years, married 17. Caged four months, 24x7.

 

Married 12 years, dating for 19. Been playing at bondage games off and on for a lot of that (mostly when I convince her to indulge me). About 2 years ago we started chastity. I'm locked up in a cage pretty much 24/7 now and get out when my wife/KH wants to play (or to clean).

 

Happily married 25 years. Discovered chastity almost a year and a half ago when searching for a way to cope with being celibate for her chronic health issues. I locked myself up permanently and have been ever since. I did this strictly for true love, to be a noble gentleman for her, not for kink. I am anti-P, I don't do M, because it ain't all that, so I never O. Chastity is awesome! I didn't know I would be this amazing and actually enjoy it more than O, and now NEVER want O again, or even be unlocked (who knew?). She appreciates that I no longer ask for anything but her love, I am in a state of chastity bliss. Life is good.

 

We dated for, ahem, 4 months. It will never work! We've only been married for 14 years, so it's just a matter of time.

I wonder at what point our families and friends realized that it was going to last for a while?

 

Been together for 9 years married for 8. It’s kind of been a flr from the start.
Started playing with chastity a year ago and now after many cheap cages we are buying a custom one for long term play.

 

Today is the 10 year anniversary of our first kiss. We dated for nearly 7 years and have been married for 3.

I would not call it a FLR by any means. We did first play with O denial (for just me obviously) probably 7 years ago maybe. We tried a cb6000 very briefly maybe 5 years ago but she didn't like it at all. We just recently and somewhat randomly decided to try it again a month or so ago and it seems likely to stick around for a while.

 

9 years together

 

Coming up to 27 years married! Oh my, where did they go?

 

Married almost 25 years. Vanilla life. Came to chastity because my sex drive was much stronger and I got into a bad masturbation habit and ruined the sex we had. Wife does not want me to be submissive which is good because not my personal interest either. We have both agreed that she is better at managing my penis than I am.

 

Interesting responses here so far. Time for a downer.

My wife and I married in 2008 after a courtship lasting just shy of two years. Alas, we started from a rockier place than I realised at the time and so things have... not gone well, shall we say. We're still together because she doesn't want a divorce and I'm me, so... yeah. Three children, they are lovely (the last against my express wishes but neither of us liked the idea of abortion so... I take the blame for that one). I struggle. A lot. So does she. No kink. At all. No sex either since the conception of our last born (two and half years and counting) with very little sexual activity before then. Longest stint of no sex was four years, since marriage we've managed just over twice a year on average.

My current chastity is thus a complete secret and done just for me. I'm selfish like that.

 

Together 16 years married 9

 

Dated a just a little over a month been married 13 years. Been doing chastity for the last 3 years

 

Met circa 14 years ago, the time wasnt right however the signs were there. We both missed them .
The planets aligned and we have been together for roughly 9 months.
Thinking back, both with FLR and kink - we had it but neither mentioned it. We used to indulge in it mildly.
I'm a believer in everything happens for a reason (even if it irritates the hell out of me at the time!!).
Now, we fate made us find one another again. We've opened our inner soul to one another.

Chastity came about as during bedroom time he would say to me he wanted me to zap him and lock him and begged me to own him etc. I hadn't heard of it /the expressions at all however was quite enthralled. I did some googling and I found a website which specialises in cages and then here.. I haven't looked back. He is being caged this weekend. I shall hold the key for the rest of our lives