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  1. Lockedinlove87
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    So i did a biiiggg oops. I just started getting back to work and since i need to change at work panties dont work, so i unlocked to wear loose boxers (didnt have any tighties). Yesterday she asked how things down are doing. I stated i was unlocked. Well she is not impressed as no permission was given nor writen in contract. I jumped jn that cold cage quickly. I know im being punished for my indiscretion this weekend by paddling. Any other ideas of punishment? What would you do?
     
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    There are plenty of threads of punishment ideas, in multiple forums. Are you looking for a funishment or punishment?
     
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    Im sorry, I didn't see much. Not sure a little of each i guess
     
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    You unlocked yourself? She should definitely take your access to the chastity key away permanently. And for punishment....at least two weeks of lockdown with no possibility of parole.
     
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    Well I’m confused. You had to unlock to change your underwear?
    You can hide your cage very easily under boxers at work when you change clothes. The only reason you would have to remove your cage is if where you are working you are Forced to have a shower. And I mean Forced. I’ve worked in industry where showering after work was common but Not Forced.

    As for your punishment @Lockedinlove87 since she already is going to Paddle you your ass should be Very Very sore for a few days. Also like @Braddogg4345 says she could take away your access to the key. This is something that you and your wife need to decide on

    If you’ve spent any time on this site you’ve probably heard me say every Chastity and FLR arrangement is Unique and Different. What happens from here forward can be one of those turning points in your life in Chastity. Good Luck.
     
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    Of course, your KH should decide what is to be done with you, but if you were my sub...

    You don't deserve a KH. You act as if you don't have one, so you don't deserve one. Locking you up for restitution is an ill-conceived solution when it is chastity you want. That is just punishment by reward. No... I would give you back your key until you prove yourself worthy for me to hold it again. Having me hold your key is a privilege, and you need to earn it by living up to your commitment.
     
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    Not sure why your even asking this question. More your kh sould be asking
     
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    Very well said @Miss Veronica A lot of us long for a KH and don't have one, then there are the lucky ones who do have a KH and abuse the situation. The mind baffles.
     
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    In my life this would be and absolute nogo. I would expect to be whipped harsly hanging from the ceiling....
     
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    a few small drops of super glue inside the cage would serve as a reminder to not remove it. Should only take a few days til it comes loose
     
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    VERY well said Miss Veronica! I could not agree more!!! The chaste males that think they can pull out, play with their Madame’s property and then slide it back in (if possible) are NOT serious about chastity. I fully agree that her dismissing him is best. This will show him WHO is truly in charge. The action of even HAVING a key should be enough for this boy to be dismissed until he can PROVE himself big time worthy!!!
    Just on chaste males thoughts!
     
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    Great idea!!!
     
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    If I ever did that, it's very simple; my Princess would stop playing. I'd be begging her to start it again.
     
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    Husband says that stuff is toxic and has things that irritate the skin, Since the penis is sensitive, it might go pretty bad for you.
     
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    Super glue will dry the skin. It may cause a slight irritation, one that will heal. BUT the lesson will be learned! Sometimes us chaste males need a serious consequence in order to learn our lessons!
    Only speaking on my behalf of course. I can be quite thick and stubborn at times. I nice teaching helps bring me in line!
     
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    It might get worse than you think. Husband says it irritates the skin on the fingers or arms bad enough, but the penis is alot more sensitive.

    Yes, you naughty boys need a serious consequence sometimes, but not something like that.
     
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    Point taken.
     
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    NICE! I wonder how long it will keep the skin attached to what it is glued to? Two or three days would be ideal. Do you have any clue?
     
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    I haven't ever used it, so I don't know.
     
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    Superglue was developed during the Vietnam war to bond wounds closed. I've used it quite a few times for that purpose. As far as how long it would hold... A few days at most unless you use acetone (nail polish remover) to dissolve it sooner.
     
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    It is not that toxic. It can irritate skin but even that is unlikely.
    Everyone that has building plastic models as a kid knows how it feels to have fingers glued together...
    Fast forward...
    Yes we have used superglue on penis and balls. In most extreme event she used it first to glue my foreskin together and than the rest of that small package of glue to glue my ballsack over my penis to totaly conceal it.
    I never had any irritation after.
    And contrary to general believes it actualy start to peel off the skin pretty fast.
     
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    I have seen a few of these threads. Suggest my punishment. I don't think any of them have been the Mistress / KH who sent the sub/salve to ask. I think its just the guy getting his rocks off with the ideas
    As suggested above she could hand the key back. That would be fitting for unlocking without permission.
    That and a cold caning I don't think you would unlock again without permisssion.

    I think most of the ideas that guys give would be counterproductive. I see that leading to doing things to piss of your other half to gain a so called punishment.
     
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    And you well know that for me, someone looking for a punishment is never likely to get one, they are much more likely to get ignored
     
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