I began to explore chastity about 15 years ago when my wife discovered she enjoyed tormenting my cock and balls, and then found that she could do it even in public by having me locked into something constricting, while she held the key. Since then we progressed to a swingers lifestyle, and I have been cucked many times when she took male lovers. Due to a medical condition, she now finds it uncomfortable to have intercourse, so hasn't for around 3 years, but we both still enjoy me wearing a cage to bed so she can feel it against her when we cuddle, and she can squeeze my trapped and presented balls whenever she likes. I have had a prostatectomy and don't get an erection without an injection these days, so like to lube up a tube type cage and lock it on, and it drives me nuts feeling it around my cock all night. Feels like I'm trapped in a warm wet pussy, and there is minimal movement when I press into her, but not enough to make me come. All night edging! Other times, she has me cage up before we go out, and puts the key in her purse. It's fun, and keeps us both smiling
Welcome. Sounds like you've both negotiated a fun way through your respective difficulties. Well done and good luck