I have a new keyholder, she is working away at the moment so will be online till her return. I was told it was “time I got serious about chastity!” My previous longest denied was 11 days, I am now currently on day 7 and day 2 under her instructions. Have bought accessories she deemed necessary a Bluetooth mastersafe and a prostate massager and of course flowers for goddess. Also, I purchased the next ring size down as my body will adjust. I suspect from conversations will not be released for at least a month for our first lock up period 3 times my previous longest! Am excited and worried at the same time what my mind will go through. She also mentioned I should buy a plastic cage like a CB6000 for metal detectors suggesting there will be no breaks for holidays or for any reason. What is in store?
Well, that all sounds about right to me! What would you be doing with one of those silly orgasm things anyway? They are bad for you! I know this for a fact because Mrs Chaste told me so and she wouldn't lie! A little "leak" every so often is all you really need! Trust me it's for the best!
Your previous long was 11 days and you have a new keyholder and you're already asking about being permanently chaste? I know you're excited and your brain is flooded with endorphins, but you need to slow down and relax. Take things a day, a week, or a month at a time. Hopefully things work out wonderfully for both you and your keyholder and thus the question of whether chastity should be your default state is answered without even being asked, but if you get too excited and start expecting too much, you can sabotage that.
Listen to me all excited, bring me back to reality enjoying it will see how things are when the new milestone of two weeks is reached. Goddess is very grounded and experienced so it’s making her giggle with delight.
Amazing not even a ruined orgasm, I’m certainly not that far down my journey yet. The first steps are being made though.
Mistress Lucy, you are wonderful. I hope you are well?. I am still growing and trying to understand the joy of chastity. Been munches and parties to interact with people. I am looking forward to seeing my new keyholder soon, when she returns from working away. I am being testing hard until then.
The road can be very long. It takes time and your mind will do many things in response to your situation. Everyone is different and the interactions with others are very important. This is very important advice. Good luck.
Thank you for the advice. Chastity does get into your mind quickly. Hopefully our dynamic matches and meetings go well.
You talk and keep your heads together, you will find if it right for you. Always make her #1 and go from there, there is treasure to be found. Go for the gold.
She seems to have developed this technique where she teases me in my cage, and between my legs. She seems to realise when I'm close to the edge and when she stops I can feel some of my semen just literally leaking out and with no feeling of anything close to fulfillment! There's no pulsing or pumping and it's not loads of semen but it seems like enough just to release a bit of pressure and not give me any orgasmic feeling! Funny trying to explain it! She also found out that my nipples are really sensitive! Come to think of it so did I! They never used to be.
I voted no. It's too early to ask this question. Go 30 days with no release and no erection, learn to serve and pleasure your keyholder while the penis throbs unrelieved in her cage. Then you can think about a year, before thinking about permanent.
I think it helps to define "permanent" when it comes to chastity. While I am not always locked, and I am sometimes allowed to ejaculate, I am NEVER far away from being locked and denied. I'd call that permanent. Others may not. As for the strictest definition of being locked 24/7/365 with zero ejaculations......I honestly don't think that's possible and certainly not practical.
I agree wholeheartedly with that, but it depends what the keyholder and chastee want from the relationship. I love to have my orgasms controlled not permanently denied, however long that may be for. My keyholder loves to tease and wants to see me tormented desperate to get out and then denied. I know I will be pushed hard before my first release.