PA healed and a new cage!

Discussion in 'Chastity device discussions and reviews' started by Jessica Alexander, Oct 2, 2018.

  1. Jessica Alexander
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    Got 16g piercing on 4 Sep 2018 and started lightly streatching and going to bigger piercings after 2 weeks. As of today 1 OCT 2018, it is ready for a 4mm/6g ring. It’s not tender and feels fully healed. I bought a device on Amazon for about $30 and it has a 3mm PA hook. It seems well made but I made a few changes to it. I cut a new notch so I could extend the hook out since it was so far back. Then I cut off the part of the PA pin that extended beyond the cage and ground down and smoothed the brass part of the magic locker lock that extended outside of the lock mechanism.

    It is so comfortable now that it feels like it could be left on forever! I will NEVER do ball trap devices again. Getting a PA was no big deal and I’m so glad I did it. Now I can quit aggravating my KH by asking her to let me out due to swelling or discomfort. It really seemed to demotivate her when she had to unlock me.

    Pics in gallery https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?gallery/albums/new-pa-and-device.3584/
     
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    16G to 6G in under a month must be some kind of record!
     
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    I agree, also 16g seems small for a PA to begin with. Smallest I have heard of is 10g. Smaller could get into cheese grater territory.
     
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    I wanted a larger piercing but the piercer who is one of top rated in Houston insisted that it would heal faster an stretch fast. At two weeks, I had a 12 in it then as soon as I could, put next size in. It has been going faster than I had ever imagined with no issues.
     
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    I really wanted this kind of device but physically I’m not long enough. Whenever flacid it would pull on piercing, and if erect would leave a lot exposed.

    Bought one from male chastity now that may have worked but it was too narrow...maybe if I asked him to make it wider but I got the largest size wide he had.

    You would think chastity devices would be easier if you are smaller, but most are centered around being at least a few inches when flacid.

    Glad the new device works and fits perfectly for ya
     
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    Ambitious for sure
     
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    I honestly didn’t rush it. I used a circular taper to stretch for about 5 minutes each time but other than that, I just upsized to the next size as I was able to without pain or bleeding.

    My piercer who has been piercing for 20 years swore that the 16g was the best to start with because it would heal fast and stretch fast.
     
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    an idle thought came to mind...

    I wonder if growers stretch better than showers?
     
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    Dear Alexa

    compliments for Your piercing * it´s the best choice for Your chastity life * it´s good to follow an experienced piercer, but I can confirm that a PA piercing usually is made in a thickness 10 gauge & when it´s fully healed will be gradually stretched * another aspect is more important * serious piercer can give details which load the piercing can withstand, useful for thicker piercing rings, prince wand & similar * but I m curios to know how many piercer have experience in chastity devices * for Metall devices a 6 gauge is the minimum & makes it pleasant & secure ('cheese cutter effect') * the larger the better * that´s why I think You should not go below Your first 6 gauge * truly

    Chris
     
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    The cage looks good. Nice job with the adjustments. I like the look of the PA pin.

    I don’t know if I could wear that style. I’m concerned that having my shaft loose I’d be inclined to try and stroke. Some that I’ve seen the penis gets fairly erect. That wouldn’t be a deterrent for me. At least having the ball trap it’s not moving.
     
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    That looks great. The thought of moving on from the ball trap type appeals but I am really afraid of getting pierced. Also is peeing messy with it? Or is it fine sitting down (which I always do anyway).
     
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    I always sit and it’s cleaner because there is no ball ring to restrict pee that dribbles out afterward.
     
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    I wanted to test things so I did everything possible to get off but it wasn’t possible. The only way I can orgasm would be a vibrator or have the key. Unfortunately, I don’t think any cage can defeat a magic wand. That would take a belt designed to defeat direct vibration and I’m not really interested in belts.
     
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    It does sound great. I love the thought that it is so comfortable it could be left on forever. I would love that if only I wasn't such a sissy ;)

    Anyway - glad you are liking it
     
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    I’d rather just have a vagina but for now I will just keep it tucked back in its tube.
     
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    My best wishes for your journey.
     
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    with a closed tube or a cage You can´t touch the lovely clitty
     
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    A tube tucked back in the panties feels much more feminine than a bulky cage that gust squeezes everything together up front. My lady has been mad at me since Sunday but last night she enjoyed some good oral. When she was done she just said “enough” and she rolled over and went to sleep. I was hoping for a release but was a good girl and didn’t push it.
     
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    You’re wider than 1.5” flaccid? :eek:...:+1:

    Well, I’m considering asking for a cage to the nearest 1/16” inch. He made me a 1-3/16” ring and welded behind my 1-1/4” Glans Armor. It grips me nicely at all times. Perhaps if you have a variation in shaft to glans thickness when flaccid something like might help you @Nicoftime
     
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    About an inch and 7/8th with all the skin and everything, and it needs to move freely or it will pull on the piercing. As for another ring, I’m not log enough for that.

    That’s ok, my device works great, just looking for options sometimes.
     
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    I think a feminine appearance given by a tube is a fascinating idea & a good sissie choice * I respect Your choice * personally I think an open device dos not match the strictness of chastity philosophy, specially if You can touch the glans * a locked penis should never be touchable * one of the exciting aspects of strict chastity is the ambivalence a new dimension of joy * a central taught is, a chastity device is not for the own pleasure * when you are locked in a well fitting & secure device you have no more choice whether you like it or not * some one tell it frustrating, some one helplessness, some one peaceful, I say that´s all irrelevant * it´s not about whether you like it * the only thing that matters is that you are locked * no release, no "pleasure", no way to came out anymore, nothing left to decide * yes, over time I have learned to appreciate this as a more mental arousal, but it does not matter what I think or mine * when I´m locked up, I´m locked, everything else is indifferent * it can please you, frustrate you, inspire you, the emotions can be infinite, but you must stay chaste * sometimes I consider exciting things like a cage with spikes on the top but my girlfriend says no & she is absolutely right * no "pleasure" only well & secure locked
     
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    A totally closed cage has hygiene issues. My Lori tube gives enough access to clean well but you aren’t going to get much pleasure through it. To say comfort isn’t important is nuts. I’m not in this to get tortured, only denied.
     
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    sorry, I never said that chastity should be uncomfortable or a torture, that´s incorrect * quite the opposite * if you have found a "well fitting & secure device", as I write, than chastity can be quite comfy * I even say chastity can & must be comfy * if that is not the case then something get wrong & needs to be adapted * please read my postings of 29 & 30 July 2018 on "Cage advice for beginners"

    Chastity is still possible without senseless pains or injuries

    Chastity have not be painful, except from clear mistakes in the device, the measuring & the fitting which are to be eliminated. Chastity can be very easy & comfy
     
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    I got a pa earlier this year.

    10 weeks in I took it out when we were getting...amorous and we fell asleep after.

    The damn thing closed up in the night.

    I get a paper cut it annoys me for days, I turn into fucking Wolverine with a piercing though.
     
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    I have a 5mm pa pin and left my cage off the other night and got in trouble when I couldn’t get it back on the next morning. It took me all day to stretch it gently before I could get it back in and mistress hasn’t let me out since. She has suddenly got more assertive and even whipped my ass with a flogger last night then had me totally satisfy her while I was denied. I think she had some sort of Dominant epiphany the other day because shits getting real!
     
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