My wife and I are still very new to this chastity thing but have been getting into a rhythm. I am sure this will change and evolve but this is where we are at for what it is worth. I am sure most people's cycles might be drastically different, but do you go through the same feelings? Maybe my cycle is not long enough yet to experience a different set of feelings? Day 1 Locked: Tight sack results in general discomfort, pinching and adjustment. “Why did we do this again?” Day 2 Locked: OK. I remember how this is supposed to feel now. But I am not really feeling horny. Why did we do this again? Day 3 Locked: This is very comfortable. I am feeling securely “owned”. I could do this all week/month/year. I seem to be completing extra household chores for some reason. Day 4 Locked (today): I am feeling strangely sexual. Although I am not really wanting the device to come off, I need some sort of sexual attention from my wife. Any sexual attention, especially the degrading kind, would be welcome at this point even though I will not be allowed to orgasm. Day 5 Locked: The device is getting tight but not because my sack is tight. Instead it is because my balls are getting full. I am becoming more desperate for orgasm and a little crazy. Day 6 Locked: Get this thing off me. I am not sure I can do this for much longer. Day 7 Locked: Get this thing off me! I do not complain to her (of course) but my frustration is probably showing on my face. She finally unlocks me. We achieve orgasm together. I am happy to have a break but also a little sad it’s over. Day 8 Unlocked: Masturbate. I never want that thing on me again. Day 9 Unlocked: Masturbate. Ugh I never want that thing on me again, but geez this porn is disgusting. Day 10 Unlocked: I have readjusted back to "normalcy". I forgot what it was like to be locked and frankly don’t care to know. Day 11 Unlocked: Well it wouldn’t be so bad to have it locked on me again. It is kind of a hot fantasy. Masturbate. Day 12 Unlocked: I want her to lock it back on me but I am afraid to ask. “Be careful what you wish for” Day 13 Unlocked: Maybe I can drop a hint or something. No, don’t. You’ll be sorry. Day 14 Unlocked: She made a comment about locking me back up tonight. We have some great sex. OMG. Here we go. I am locked again.
Yeah. It goes like that for us all. Just remember it’s mostly mental. Once you get it into your head you are locked. Then you over gelfway there
Thank you for the post though it seems that is close to how it feels for me also but as we go on I know it will keep going longer and longer whatever my wife dom kh wants.i do love being owned and locked by her and tied!
Yes, it's a fascinating cycle. You'll notice, if you ever go longer, that you can have days of almost insane need to orgasm followed by days of Zen like acceptance of chastity. With no apparent logic to it.
I agree that there is a rhythm, but of course everyone's is different! For instance, mine is more like: Day 1 (Usually Saturday or Sunday): We had sex last night! Yay! But why did she make me lock right back up? She could trust me not to masturbate. I don't like this. Why did I ask for this again? Day 2: Sigh. I still wouldn't masturbate. Probably. This thing is annoying. It's pinching again. Day 3: OK, it's not so bad. I probably would have masturbated if I could... so... I guess she did the right thing. After all, I asked for this. Day 4: Yeah, I'd so masturbate if I could. Good thing I'm locked up. Hey, look, I'm leaking a little. Guess I should start wearing a pad so it doesn't show. Day 5: I need release. Let me get my mind off it by getting work done. Day 6: Horny. Can we have sex yet? Maybe if I do the laundry we can have sex... Can we have sex yet? Day 7: Can we have sex yet? Drip drip, change pad. Can we have sex yet? Can we have sex yet? Can we have sex yet? Drip drip, change pad. Can we have sex yet? Can we have sex yet? Can we have sex yet? Can we have sex yet? YAY SEX! Of course, it's not Day 7 like clockwork... it's only been a few months, but I'd say it's generally been about 6-10 days.