Hello all, I wrote an intro a year ago when I first joined and started learning about this realm. I've been pretty quiet since then and thought I would introduce myself again now that my husband and I am ready to starting taking this journey. I might be a little different than most here as I am a female who enjoys the idea of male chastity, and my husband has agreed to give it a try in part with his girly/sissy/cross-dressing (not sure what it would actually be categorized as) fetish. We have both been pretty vanilla in the past. So if anyone has any suggestions on how to start into the world of kink without getting in over our heads, please help a gal out. I'd also know some great resources or the best forum to post in to start looking for a first chastity device. I look forward to getting to know this community
https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/cage-advice-for-beginners-my-opinion.24945/ Hope that helps a little. Welcome back, and I wish you both well. Was wondering if his dressing was his kink, yours, or both...just curious, so rare for it to be the females idea. Anyway, let us know what you two are into and what questions you have and I’m sure you’ll get plenty of replies. Good luck
That does help. I'll have to take a closer look in the morning when im still functioning. Dressing is definitely his idea. Im not sure how far he wants to go with it, dont know that he does yet either. He does like female panties and pantyhose. Also likes when he is refered to in female terms, and just general role reversal as well as being submissive. Problem is since its not really in my realm im not quite sure what it would be categorized to help come up with some roleplay ideas for him. The chastity is surprisingly mine. I like the idea of the power play and control. Plus it just generally excites me. I just dont want to scare him away from it. Hopefully we can put the two together and have some fun.
Since he desires to embrace his inner feminine spirit more, use the desire of control and leadership to embrace your inner masculine one. Help him grow in learning service through proper dress and controlling his urges, while you command him. As a masculine spirited leader it is important that you get satisfied for the work accomplished, but he needs to see and experience your sexual and intimacy pleasure as primary. Hope that helps broaden your mind ... If it helps once he is finished dressing he should provide you the sexual release you need at that moment to reinforce his place.
You definitely won't have trouble putting the two together, they're a complete match. There are several members here who have combined the two. Welcome! Is he a member too?
Sounds like your desire for chastity will compliment his desire to dress up(many feel the need to purge or shame after an orgasm), and keeping him from cumming would keep him in the state of mind he enjoys. Good luck, I’m sure you will both fit in here if he does decide to join.
Thank you all for your warm welcome and support. He doesnt use the internet often and isnt a member, but hopefully that will change.
Do remember there is a keyholder section for women here, and the journey you share will help empower other women to embrace the power that can be had.
Welcome. I think the communication between you two is great. I know I have heard it and experienced what it is like to be totally open with your love. To be totally excepted by another brings peace and a new dimension to light. There is nothing greater than to explore who we are together and find things about each other that are wonderful to share. Enjoy your new journey together, this is just the beginning.