@DommeLP and I have gone through some significant ups and downs together. The whole relationship started the other way around. From those humble beginnings we were learning about one another and ourselves. LP learned that although she thought she was a sub, she definitely wasn't. The fact that we can start as Dom/Sub and end up Sub/Domme is testament to how strong our bond is. For LP to be introduced to and entertain new and taboo kinks without any prior experience and not run a mile means the world to me. I don't believe that we need to prove to one another our devotion however, we both have done something because the other wanted it. When she was my Sub I asked her to get a tattoo, which she did. Now that I am hers she wanted me to get a PA which I have. It makes me very happy that we both get something from our relationship the fact that she wants and needs me to be locked up gives me butterflies. If it makes me a better person and satisfies LP's desires then I am more than happy to relinquish control to the most important person in my life. LP asked me to write what chastity means to me, I think it is very simply - Trust. Trust in you that you will do right by me and I will do right by you. For my LP
At first, I suggested chastity based on the erotic and submissive aspects. It has developed in time to be exactly that, trust.
I hope you and @DommeLP continue to grow in this trust . Ups and downs are a part of life, it is what we do when they arise. To find someone that all can be shared with is a very special thing. Hope you can accomplish together that lasting relationship.
What is this journey about for me? - Experiencing the days with open eyes. - Not shying away from the difficult. - Learning through awareness. - Growing in a healthy way. - Developing manners. - An attitude of love. - Embracing Trust. - Etc ... The two of you had become inspirational for me a while ago. Why? Because that ^^^ is what you are doing ...