How long have you been married or together?

Wow that is awesome
You just made my day!

 

Been together nearly 11 years . His idea to try chastity as things were a bit slow in the bedroom, kids work usual distractions lol
Very new so far so good

 

My humble suggestion is that you lead with your heart but be sure to lead

 

Together for 15 years, married for 10, chastity 24/7 with FLR for about 14 months

 

Married 40 years. Just started using a cage to control my urges. Have put all my trust in her, my Keyholder.

 

Together 11 years married 8 years.
Just started taking chasity more seriously within the last 3-4 months. Husband tried a few years ago to introduce it. I wasn't in to it being done to me, but having him locked up is great! Lol!
Being in control and more dominate is new to me, I am very passive. Trying to bring my inner b*tch out, lol

 

Just think about all the things you'd like to improve in your marriage. His home life. His schedule. Your sex life. Work on those. He's amenable, he wants to do those things, he wants you to get the things you want and be happier. He wants to know that he's serving you and he wants to be charged up all the time. That's why he agreed to wear the cage.

 

Just celebrated our 45th last month!

 

24 years- feels like yesterday

 

426 Days

 

Together for 22 years. Playing with being locked up for 6 months with various kinks thrown in. I brought it up to try something new.. Wife/KH has really grown into it , more by the day. We still have PIV, but, I do a lot of pleasing of her when not doing PIV.As she is the priority .Lucky me!

 

Interesting that a lot of couples here started their journey much later in their marriage. Why is that? Why couldn't we start this at the point we started dating or at engagement? Why do we wait so long to make our fantasies known? I'm guilty. Didn't come out to my wife until 7 years into our marriage though I had been interested in this lifestyle before we got married. I suspect part of this has to do with fear. Fear of being rejected by your significant other. Then you have kids and they throw a monkey wrench in the whole equation. I also would submit that women become open to new ideas with age.

 

Ms. and I have been together for 13 years. We've tried chastity off and on over the years as it seemed a natural progression of our D/s relationship - which is how we met in the first place. Dominance and submission has always been the core of who we are as a couple and will always be so.

 

We had been dating for 5 weeks when I first introduced her to chastity, she had been totally vanilla and knew nothing about kink/BDSM let alone this niche interest. I knew if she wasn't at least curious than it wasn't worth continuing the relationship.

Luckily she was and we've been together 6 years, married for 2.

 

My wife and I have been together for 8 years and married for two. We're both 30 years old and began playing with chastity just a few months after we started dating while I had been locking by myself for a couple years before we got together. Over the past 8 years I've probably been locked about 95% of the time.

 

We have been married over 46 years. We have had kinky play from the beginning. So many kinky times!
I was just born kinky. She, on the other hand is always loving sex with me. We have only ever been with each other.
Chastity is only a fun thing used as foreplay or a day or so as prolonged foreplay or to get me to sweep, mop, wipe, the entire house, windows, baseboards ant so forth before chastity being removed then whipped then eat out at the Y then when she has had many Os, I am ordered tog give it to her.
Don’t believe the stuff about older people not having sex. Sometimes my testicles hurt badly when slapping into her. She often has my Playtex panty girdle ready for me (it has a hole to accommodate my member.)

 

Married for 6 going on 7 years. Started chastity about 8-9 months ago, but actually had had a couple of devices few years back which were used only sporadically and without understanding the real impact of true chastity.

It’s nice to hear couples here have been married for decades and still adding new adventures and sexual play.

 

Married for 35 years, wife been shared and still is, for the last 30 years. Chastity got introduced 10 years ago, give or take a year. Her idea, saw it by mistake when we were in bed together surfing some porn. She likes porn where the wife is visibly shared and the hubby watches on. That particular vid had a guy in a chastity cage. After viewing and her getting off, we were laying back on the bed and she commented how she liked the idea of the cage and it would be a good idea for us to get one.

 

Been together for 21 years and married for 18. I'd been playing with chastity without her knowing for about 2 years until I finally built up the courage to broach the subject with her about 5 years ago.
She definitely wasn't sure at first but at least didn't laugh the idea out of town even if she did think it was a bit freaky.
I found some sensible articles on the web for her to read after which she was prepared to give it a go.
Almost from the off it was a bit of a eureka moment - she got such a buzz from the power exchange that she was happy to carry on.
Still nervous about having the key on display for the first couple of years but now pretty comfortable in most situations.
And me being locked for most of the time these days.

 

Been together 11 years, married 4. Started chastity about 10 months ago. Not long after starting my default state was locked.

 

BKwife an I have been together 40 years and married for 32. I know it’s a good match because it only feels like 39 and 31

 

Married for 42 years. In the beginning I never knew about this lifestyle. But living in California, we started going to the nude beaches. At some of these we would openly have sex and sometimes be filmed doing "it". Then we also started going to nude resorts that had pools and hot tubs. That's when things started to change for the better. As we would sit in a group hot tub at night, some guys would start to rub against my wives tits or rub her clit under water. When I'd see this, I would instantly get hard. Of course, my wive noticed this and correctly interpeted it as signal to let the guy proceed at will. If he was bold enough to orgasm, she would rub me as well as him at the same time. From there, things progressed to her having sex with other guys while I watched. I often came without even touching myself. This led to me being caged so it would be harder for me to cum.
By this time, my hotwive was totally accepting accepting our new lifestyle, and I was totally happy to be chaste, caged, and just an observer when I could. Of course, she sometimes had sex on her own when I wasn't around, but she would always tell me about it (at length) afterwards.

 

Married 30 years in April. Dated for a year before that. Have only been into M.C. since the summer. But it is part of our every day life now. My Wife(KH) was into it as soon as I told her about what I wanted to do. We couldn't get one here quick enough for her. It got here and was on me in about 2 minutes. And I have only been unlocked for maybe 10 days since.

 

MS Lexys and I have been married for over 38 years. I encouraged her to lead (have been sub/slave persuasion my whole aware life). She was a bit (5 years) younger them me, so it seems to have helped encourage Her to grow and gain confidence,

We have played with chastity since the original CB-2000 days. Now it is more like 75% locked, unlocked only when physically needed (irritation, etc.).