How high is your sex drive?

I would have to say Higher. Chastity started as a kinky interest following things like bondage and discipline. Chastity was like another step in a sexual progression, a step that I’m now happily stuck on even if the sexual part has been greatly decreased.

I don’t believe that people with a low sex drive would ever stay locked up for long periods of time. The novelty would wear off.

 

I went from 350-450 orgasms a year( pretty much every day plus sometimes 2-3 times a day) to about 10-15. I would say my drive was quite high, but I can also say it had a lot to do with my feelings.

I used it as an escape from feeling lonely, unloved, or missed affection, even when I was married. When I first started seeing my wife/kh we weren’t into chastity yet, and did it every day, but to tell ya the truth, I was not needing sex that often because I was so happy. Had not touched myself since we met...without her.

So my sex drive I would say is high, but it does diminish slightly when happy, not that I don’t want it, but I don’t need it as much.

 

I have a high sex drive. My partner and I have PIV 5-7x a week, and I still can masturbate daily. I follow a her first rule in any interaction, with the only exception is the early morning (i.e. 3-6am).

When I was seriously out of shape, it floated way down.

I am a natural switch, so I am cool with being top alpha dog, and don't mind spreading the time being a beta boy if need be as my personality is highly dynamic. However, consent is critical to me (always has been) given my experience with trauma.

Chastity interests me probably due to the fact I have such a high sex drive combined with the passion and love for serving a woman. I love women so deeply it isn't funny so it plays between these passions.

On the flip side, with my imagination it tickles me to think about a fun parallel world where men are controlled at their base level to ensure proper training for society to ensure adequate birth rates and a safe sexual and interpersonal place for women. One of the books that is interesting is "The Power" as an example.

Another fun fantasy view along with chastity is training women how to gain the power in taking "men", so men understand and appreciate what women go through ....

 

Given my excessive masturbation prior to being locked I would say higher - at least in my case.

On the other hand after several years with fairly few orgasms I think my body is adjusting...….I'm not sure how I would react physically if I were unlocked.

 

Definitely on the high side prior to

 

A small part of my draw towards chastity was to curb masturbation. It’s worked. From daily to maybe once a week. So high sex drive trying to curb abusing it for a new experience.

 

I’m with you there. I was twice a day for the most part and finally realized the toll it was taking on my relationship
Since locking up I have been a much better man to my wife
AND SHE DESERVES IT

 

Lower on the sex drive scale for me. Chastity would just be an annoyance as far as taking a shower is concerned. There is no problem on my end as far as having some sort of sex obsession as it is on the bottom of the list of life items to be done. I have always been interested in the personalities of the people involved in the chastity scene. Both keyholder and cage holder. I don't need a chastity device because I don't care much for that thing anyway.

 

I would say mine is on the high side of normal. My wife would say mine is ridiculously high.

 

I really do enjoy being locked up but really haven’t indulged Inman of the other frtshes here-not that I wouldn’t, but I really like listening and talking and how I’ve said elsewhere being opened to these new and exciting lives

 

I feel sexual arousal and a desire to orgasm every day. Is that high? Normal? I guess it also depends on age. I am middle aged.

 

I would put that on the high side

 

Low, for sure

 

Wow what’s your thought on high

 

Oh, those days were a long time ago. I was a jerk then.

 

Just misguided

 

I would have to totally agree. However, I have never been much interested in masturbation as a way of expressing it. It took a while to turn over my sex to my wife. Since I did, I've been much more relaxed, but not necessarily less sexual.

 

Haha.... Mine would say the same!

 

High. Very high.

 

I would say between med and high

 

high I would say but don't know what to measure against all I know is it's on my mind all the time and used to orgasm at least once a day but not allowed now lol and I'm in my 50s sex drive has been the same as long as I can remember

 

Another for the high side...

 

I’ve noticed in the last year or so my sex drive is lessening. I’m in my mid 50’s so I’m assuming it’s to do with age. I have mixed feelings about this. I know it’s inevitable, a marker of getting older I suppose, although by other measures I’m in the best physical fitness now I’ve ever been.

 

High for me. I pretty much used to masterbate at least once a day. About a year ago I went on testosterone replacement treatment. I was already interested in chastity but after the therapy started, my sex drive went into hyper overdrive. My desire to be in chastity went out of orbit. Sadly, my wife has not shared my enthusiasm for chastity.