Hello. My name is Brendan, I am a 28 year old male. My partner is a 25 year old female. From, Montreal, Quebec. We are new to this scene. Two years ago we began an open relationship and started swinging. We are in to BDSM, we love trying new things. Sexual exploration and living out our fantasies is an important part of our daily lives. It keeps our minds fresh and healthy. My partner happens to be submissive, I myself am a switch. I was always interested in chastity. We started to experiment with it recently. With all my other partners and girlfriends I have always been dominate. Don't get me wrong, I love it. It just feels nice to give up some control for one, lose your mind in submission and watch your partners creativity shine.
Welcome my wife and I are also knew we've been here about a week and we've learned a lot and it's a great resource
Welcome to the site and good luck on your journey into the world of chastity. Hopefully you can make it work with a submissive partner. If you end up just topping from the bottom, you're not getting the real experience.
She's not completely submissive. She just needs solid training to bring her inner domme out. She enjoys it when she's in control. Now it's just about getting more in depth.
Oh she will. We are in search of a female dom, that will train her. Show her how to make me her bitch. Ive been locked for 5 days in a row now. Its the longest I've ever been locked up. I am going crazy, on another note. This has been my most productive week I've had in a long time. Im way ahead of schedule. Maybe chastity is a good thing for me after all.
Hopefully you treated her well when she was your Sub or she might take out any resentments on you. Actually, depending on your interests, that might actually be a good thing. That's the spirit.
Always, I always made sure her needs were met, physically or emotionally. I was new to it too, I dominated her out of love for her. It was something she said she needed so I gave it to here. As for working, Since I work for myself, I generally jerk off a few times a day at work and then go home and have sex a few times with my wife. So I've had a perpetual boner all week, in order not to start dry humping my work desk, I dove into future projects. Although, my boxers have been soaked everyday, pre-cum is like oozing out of my at unhamily rates.