I found myself recently locking myself for someone else. I find around 4-5 days in, its impossible to not start touching myself. I find I can eventually orgasm (slightly disappointingly). After telling my Domme about this, and after an appropriate punishment, I have resolved not to do so again with her permission. This should help my willpower, but has anyone else got any other tips?
Try a smaller tighter cage. And a little willpower converted into service for your Miss. She'll decide when release of semen is appropriate -- that's the whole point.
Echo Rectrix. I am sure we could all defeat our devices if we so wished. Amongst other reasons the device is there to help avoid the initial moment of weakness. Even someone wearing a Latowski will find a way if they let themself look. It is what should be your largest sex organ which is supposed in charge of all your actions and it lies between your ears not your legs.
My Queen was going to use colored plastic cable ties to ensure I remained locked ,we don't live together. I didn't like it because I knew I could order the same ties as we had already. I found a small padlock , and gave the only key to my Queen, now I know I'm helpless, and there is no way out . An emergency ? yes, it will be humiliating being in an emergency room or arrested by mistake ,or even if by accident someone notices the strange bulge . That to me is what it's all about , totally under the ownership of my Queen.
Despite being physically locked in the cage, I was able to finish. I think I learnt a valuable lesson in submission when I saw i had disappointed my Goddess, and have endevered not to do it again. In terms of plastic keytags, I think that they can be uniquely numbered, making it impossible to replace. That being said I much prefer a metal lock
I had an experience to share along these lines last weekend. I've recently tried a new cage with a solid metal urethral tube that goes just deeper than the base ring. On top of the sensation of being penetrated there, I was completely unable to orgasm, even given unlimited time with the vibrator. The only thing that happened was my hands went numb and everything got really warm. I'm not sure if it was physical or mental, but I was trying to see if I could climax - and I couldn't.
no pain for me - I just insert really slowly as the tip of the insert is a bulb with a larger diameter. there's a hole through it to allow flow of fluids, however some goes around the outside of it and makes a bit of a mess. I was curious what it felt like to have an orgasm go through there, sadly I still don't know.
You could try with the cage off and the insert in. I wouldn't think it'd be a pleasant experience but who knows?!
It's a solid insert that is permanently attached to the cage. A221 design found here: https://www.aliexpress.com/item/Hap...f7f8-4ed8-a7f6-5d89a343a3b5&priceBeautifyAB=0